Remember in the movie 33 days of love lost, there is a summary of the two generations of different views of marriage and love: our people in that age, treat marriage like a refrigerator, the bad on the repeated repair, always thinking of the fridge repaired. Unlike your young people, they always want to change when they are bad. Recently, the life newspaper reporters interviewed, from lawyers and marriage counselors, to understand the story of the ice city 90s flash marriage. On the honeymoon, the mother - in - law didnt finish it to get a divorce When Yang Yanghes small army got married last October and the wedding banquet was finished, the two of them planned to go to Europe to spend their honeymoon. They are all born in the 1990s, and are all single children. Their ability to take care of themselves is very poor. Everything in the wedding banquet is handled by the competent mother-in-law. The young couple often forget everything. The mother-in-law Wang is really not sure about their honeymoon trip. After their sons daughter-in-law agrees, they go with them. However, after a long time abroad, Yang discovered big problems. Travel in Europe, like all kinds of luxury bags, clothes, she has long wanted to buy, buy, buy, open happy crazy shopping mode. However, as soon as she saw her daughter-in-law shopping, Mrs. Wang was very unhappy. Every time, her husband always stood by her mother and took care of her mothers feelings. Say I shopping madness, in fact, my mother-in-law bought a lot, more annoying is, my husband this time, always help his mother to take things, I threw a lot of things in the back. I communicated with the little army. He opened his mouth shut. my mother said, there was a contradiction between his wife and his mother-in-law. He could just hide or hide, or let my daughter endure. The daughter was the apple of her eye at the mothers house. At first, it was because the little army was good enough to let my daughter marry her. But after she marries her, she will get angry. Long pain is better than short pain. The mother of Yang Yang said. At the beginning of this year, Yang Yanghes small army handled the divorce procedure. Being a parent is like playing a kid. Yang Peipei, a lawyer from the Harbin bloomer law firm, said that the phenomenon of married couples in the post - 90s is relatively many, and the foundation is not very strong. Once faced with life trifles such as wood oil and salt, she did not tolerate each other. In her five post-90s divorces last year, three were married. Xiao Zhang and Xiao Ying were born in 1993, a college student. After graduation, two of them stayed in Harbin. Yang lawyer introduced, Xiaozhang and Xiaoying contradiction in the time of pregnancy buried foreshadowing. Xiao Zhang is young. He doesnt understand his wifes hard pregnancy. After marriage, he still lives as he used to. When the baby was born, Xiao Zhangs mother came to haha to help her children. Xiao Zhang often went out drinking with his friends, while Xiao Zhangs mother took special care of her son, causing Xiaoqiangs strong dissatisfaction. In the previous period, the couple went to a wedding, and the wife had a friends wife after the breastfeeding period. The figure quickly recovered, and Zhang boasted that your daughter-in-law is so good, not like my daughter-in-law has finished the child, so fat no one is like. This sentence irritated the little glume at once, and Xiao Ying thought that this was the husband who was dissowing himself, and the wine was spilled on the wine table in his wrath. Poor children are less than two years old. At present, two people have agreed to divorce by court mediation, and their children belong to the female side. Shake out of my girlfriends marriage and quick divorce Last summer, 22 year old Xiao Gao, who was lovelorn wandering on a famous bar street in Harbin, opened the shake model of his cell phone and quickly shook out the saleswoman in a nearby bar. Two people in the bar to drink, talk in the conversation, Huanhuan has just broken up with her boyfriend, the two people with similar experiences, the more speculative, it soon came to the place of love. Two months later, Xiao Gao learned from his friend that his ex girlfriend was married, and he was still drying out a marriage certificate in his circle of friends. He wanted to get angry with his ex girlfriend, and discussed with Huanhuan. Huan Huan happily agreed, so the two went to the Harbin Municipal Civil Affairs Department for marriage registration. As a result, the hasty marriage cost two people very quickly. Before marriage, Xiao Gaos understanding of Huanhuan was limited to: he was one year older than he was a salesman of a liquor company. Xiao Gao is the only child that his parents get almost 40 years old. So although he was angry at his flash marriage, his parents still made room for them to live in. Huan Huans parents divorced when she was very young, and remarried each other. Huanhuan was the kind of girl who was sensitive and insecure. After marriage, the two often quarrel over who does the dishes and who does the housework. Once, happy to eat a vanilla flavored ice cream, as a result of the store sold out, Xiao Gao bought the other kind of ice cream, Huanhuan left the ice cream on the ground, crying and saying that when she was in love, her taste of ice cream would be bought for her, but after marriage it changed. Such things happened many times, and little height was very annoying. Only six months after the marriage, two people handled divorce procedures. Marriage advice: not self centred parent Bie Jiaohe Xu Lei, a counselor for marriage and family, said that after many 90s marriage, he showed a smart style. After 90, most of them are single children. They tend to be self centred, do things by feeling and lack family responsibilities. Xu Lei believes that most of the growth of the post-90s is very smooth, they have a lot of romantic and beautiful longing for love and marriage, but once they face problems such as wood oil and salt and the relationship between the daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law, they lack the ability and patience to deal with them, often like children in the family. Moreover, many young couples are unable to be independent physically or financially, or rely on their parents support, such as helping children and mortgage loans. The marriage of the post-90s is also often transformed into a mixed battle between the parents of the two parties. The parents are not at ease, and the premarital control and the marriage intervention lead to the escalation of the contradiction. She suggested that 90% of the women should be cautious about marriage. They are not suitable for getting married too soon. They will grow up to be able to bear the marriage and make a commitment to those who love again. And it is hoped that the parents of the younger couple can let the parents let go. The children are already adults with complete ability. Let them manage their marriage in their own way, and try not to stir them up as far as possible. Only by correctly understanding the meaning of marriage, and being ready to be a qualified husband, a good wife and loving mother, can marriage be fragile. Xu Lei said seriously. The source of this article: Dayang Net - Guangzhou Daily: Wang Xiaochen, editor in chief: Li Tian Yi _NN7528 She suggested that 90% of the women should be cautious about marriage. They are not suitable for getting married too soon. They will grow up to be able to bear the marriage and make a commitment to those who love again. And it is hoped that the parents of the younger couple can let the parents let go. The children are already adults with complete ability. Let them manage their marriage in their own way, and try not to stir them up as far as possible. Only by correctly understanding the meaning of marriage, and being ready to be a qualified husband, a good wife and loving mother, can marriage be fragile. Xu Lei said seriously.