Those who dare to have a second child are warriors! It is necessary to have a second child

category:Lady
 Those who dare to have a second child are warriors! It is necessary to have a second child


In 2019, Chen Xiaochun suddenly announced at the concert that Ying caier was pregnant for three months.

This is their second child, whether it is a boy or a girl, Chen Xiaochun said: thank Ying caier.

The whole scene was full of happiness, and Jasper seemed to welcome new family members more than his parents.

When Ying caier participated in the program wifes romantic travel, the program team replayed the video of Chen Xiaochuns proposal.

The domineering Chen Xiaochun was even nervous to incoherent, and finally just said to Ying caier with tears in her eyes: marry me. After that, the two people hugged each other warmly.

It is unexpected that the pheasant brother has always been domineering, but also has such a tender side, and in the face of Ying caier, he always dotes on her smile.

Although now has a happy family, but Chen Xiaochuns early life is not satisfactory.

Because of his poor family conditions, he dropped out of school very early to work hard, and because he was exposed to the social warmth and coldness too early. When he was young, he was often exposed to negative news.

Such words as irascible, unruly and ruffian are suitable to describe young Chen Xiaochun.

Ying caiers family is superior, and his development in the entertainment industry is also very smooth. Although the difference between the two is 16 years old, Ying caier likes Chen Xiaochun who is full of ruffian spirit.

After getting along with the ancient spirit of Ying caier, Chen Xiaochuns cynical attitude has completely changed and his temper has become gentle.

He likes Ying caier to smile happily every day. After being with her, he feels that his life has hope.

Who would have thought that once pheasant brother would wear super Marys clothes and take funny pictures with his wife and children.

01

What is the best love for children in the family?

That is, Dad loves mom and mom adores dad, which is proved by Jasper perfectly.

He grew up in a loving family. He has enough sense of security for this family. He believes that even if there is a younger brother or sister, he can still get love, and this love will not be reduced.

This has proved once again that only if the relationship between husband and wife is good, the relationship between parents and children can be good.

02

1. Pay attention to the relationship between husband and wife

Some families, after having children, will put all their love into the children, and the husband and wife in addition to quarrel is indifferent.

In fact, whether a family is happy or not depends mainly on the relationship between husband and wife. Only when the relationship between husband and wife is good, can the parent-child relationship be good.

Huo Siyan and Du Jiang are also models of loving couples in the entertainment industry. They never avoid showing love in front of their son, hum.

In such a family atmosphere, the children not only have love in their hearts, but also dare to express their own ideas.

Well, I often say to my mother, I love you, which is very warm.

Huo Siyan will stand behind her and say, Mom, I will protect you when she is afraid of playing slide.

Some parents think that as long as they dont quarrel in front of their children, they usually dont talk more than 10 sentences at home, even in the cold war.

They can feel the change of their parents relationship. Even if they dont know what kind of behavior is love, they absolutely know what kind of behavior they dont love.

The relationship between parents is tense, and the family is often in a state of quarrel or cold war.

If this kind of tense and depressed mood is held in the heart for a long time, the child will be very depressed, and his character will become sensitive and fragile.

The feelings between parents are the childrens initial understanding of the world.

Broken feelings will not only destroy the happiness of the couple, but also the life of their children.

Although the unfortunate families are different, they also have one thing in common, that is, their parents like to complain, and the family atmosphere is full of negative energy.

The influence of the original family on children is very big. What kind of family is, it is easy to become what kind of person they grow up.

Growing up in love, children will be like the sun, warm everyone around, and will be more easily loved by others.

Father and mother love children, children also love their parents, such a family will be a happy family.

If you want to give children better love, you should first learn to love your other half, which is the best education for children.

Some couples have a lot of concerns about the issue of having a second child. Those women who dare to have a second child will have deep confidence.

Every happy family with two children is full of love and responsibility.

The love between Chen Xiaochun and Ying caier has been talked about with great interest.

His love for Ying caier is obvious to all. He is not only very gentle to his wife, but also responsible and responsible to take care of the whole family.

Because now many young women are not worried about children after marriage, and even choose not to have children at all.

If the husband can let his wife get rid of these worries and willingly give birth to a child or even a second child, then she must be the one who is loved.

Many families are hesitant to have a second child because of the attitude of the boss.

If the boss has always been more resistant and resistant attitude, then the second child plan is easy to be stranded.

However, if the eldest child is expecting to be the eldest brother or elder sister, then many happy second child families will be achieved.

Like Jasper, he was even more excited about the arrival of his second child than his parents. He often said that he wanted a little sister many times.

At the concert, when Chen Xiaochun announced that he had a second child, Jasper gave his mother a kiss on the face excitedly.

In fact, the most essential reason is that parents do not love the eldest brother enough.

If a parents love for his child is enough to make him feel that even if he has a second child, his status will not be shaken, then such a parent will have the capital to have a second child.

Childrens heart is to have a person to accompany him to grow up, they worry that parents will be more inclined to their brother or sister, with them, parents will not love themselves, they will resolutely resist.

If the eldest brother firmly disagrees to have a second child, it means that the parents do not do well enough and do not give the child enough sense of security.

If the eldest child is very happy with the arrival of the second child, then it can be regarded as a qualified and qualified parent for a second child. Only by taking care of the eldest child can we have a comprehensive second child.

Happiness itself is a challenge

Xie Nan once tweeted that she would never have a second child.

But before long, she changed her mind and began to face the arrival of her second child.

Later, Xie Nan said about the change of her mentality during this period of time.

She didnt want to have a second child because she was worried that she didnt have the energy to take care of the second child. She didnt know how to deal with the relationship between the eldest and the second and her own career.

In general, she is not ready to raise another child again.

But when she was ready for her second child, her mindset began to change.

For the second child, no matter how you choose, these will become a part of our life experience.

These experiences are also valuable wealth for us to enrich the rest of our lives.

The author Zhang Huiwen holds the national professional qualification of the second level psychological consultant and the third level national professional qualification of marriage and family counselor. She has been working for 5 years and has accumulated rich cases. Love is a kind of learning and improving ability.