When a message is sent to a person and there is no reply, the hypothesis begins
Am I too bold?
He didnt want to talk to me at all, did he?
Maybe I shouldnt have taken the initiative.
The chat record of self talk is more like a hand stretched out and left out in the air.
But deep in the heart, there is clearly something, in the faint unwilling ah!
Maybe there are too many people with such a small mind. Wechat has recently launched a very intimate new function - dont show the chat.
As long as you hold down the dialog box, swipe to the left, and select dont show, the dialog box will instantly disappear, as if it doesnt exist, so that you can be out of sight, out of mind.
The biggest difference between it and delete is that once the other party replies to a message, the dialog box and chat record will automatically appear to help you find back the friendship you once had.
In fact, people are not as proud as they think.
If you ignore me, I will swear I wont pay attention to you any more.
However, as long as you are willing to reply again, you will find that I still love you as before.
I dont know from when, peoples contact, full of careful exploration.
Everyone is worried that they are not so important in other peoples hearts.
During the national day, I went home. On the bus in my hometown, I suddenly heard my name called.
I looked at the eyebrows and eyes above the face mask, superimposed with the memory of more than 20 years ago, but I didnt dare to confirm for a moment.
Thats really my primary school classmate.
We used to be such a good friend, primary school in a class, junior high school in a dormitory to sleep all over, is even talking about people who dream.
Now we meet again after a long separation. We are so happy that I dont know where to start. We can only exchange greetings awkwardly and take our seats respectively.
Fortunately, we added wechat.
I had an idea. I thought of chatting with my family some time ago and mentioned her, so I sent her a screenshot.
One minute, two minutes Half an hour later, she did not reply.
Until I got on the train, the mobile phone just Ding Dong a ring, she sent two laughing expression, said: this is fate.
I am finally relieved to know that my 20-year thoughts are not self indulgent.
Young love, not so vulnerable.
Those who speak first are afraid of losing.
People who dont speak are afraid that they will drift away.
I even began to appreciate the voting link, so a simple request can break the deadlock that has not been contacted for a long time.
High school classes are always silent.
Until someone throws out a link and says, vote for the baby.
The canvassers were happy.
Not only did the childs vote count get better, but he knew that old friends were there all the time.
Finally, there is a simple way to tell old friends: I still care about you.
Its like manna for people who dont express their social fears.
Especially for those who have not contacted for a long time, they suddenly shyly answer and send a request to help bargain.
I will smile, as if I met an old friend in a foreign land: its a coincidence that you are as poor as I am.
Once you are sure that you and I are not so rich as to be unattainable, what else can not become intimate?
Thank God there is a kind of gentle person in this world.
They will automatically slow down when they pass you on rainy days.
They will tell you with a smile of eight teeth after you carefully send out a tentative signal: dont doubt that you are in my heart, and have always been wonderful!
Dont let everyone in the dialog box respond to your last message in time.
With such a person, you will get a great sense of security, never have to worry about yourself is bold, embarrassing existence.
And we, also learn to be such a person.
Dont let the person who cares about you wait for a reply. After self doubt, slide the dialog box to the left and select a dont show chat record.
Compared with delete or black.
Not showing is such a humble pride. Proud to pretend to be invisible, humble to call back.
This is like a sentence written by Bing Xin:
After the fight, the children looked for each other, and they couldnt help rejoicing, but they didnt want to make up for each other immediately.
With his face on his back, his head bowed and his lips pouted, he said, if you had known that you had come to coax me again, why did you ice me there at the beginning?
People who deliberately dont show the dialog box are mostly as eager as children, waiting for someones response.
But as long as the other party gives a definite reply, he can immediately reply to his anger and be happy.