In this world, no one can escape the confusion of the first year of his life, so he has to shoulder the burden of his 40th birthday. When he knows the destiny of heaven, he finally understands what is most important to live a lifetime.
Once upon a time, I thought happiness was: enough money, unlimited happiness, decent life.
Only after half a life can we understand that: no pain of disease, no too much worry, no boundless resentment, is better than wealth.
Health is the first condition of happiness
A few days ago, Wu Yanzu, 46, sent a long micro blog, which attracted the attention of the whole network.
On the last day of last year, he also sent an article to warn people: dont take health for granted, because without health, you will have nothing.
When I was young, I always thought that the years were long. When I was young, I used my life to exchange for material wealth. I didnt want to catch those things until I was old. Naturally, it was too late.
In recent years, we often hear the news that celebrities from all walks of life are gradually retiring, and they have to give up their jobs because of their physical reasons.
Even Li Jiaqi, who broadcast 389 live broadcasts a year and hardly breaks, has stopped broadcasting for many times this year due to illness.
Some people have summed up the happiest moment of life into seven words:
After a long times separation, he recovered after a long separation. He was surprised and met unexpectedly. He arrived as promised and could be expected in the future.
On reflection, all this should be:
When you get rid of the pain of illness, meet again with friends you havent seen for a long time, and all the things you have lost come back to you. The past is just a false alarm, and you meet surprise again unexpectedly. Happiness comes as promised, so you can look forward to the future.
In the second half of life, the powerful beating of heart is more important than making money with overload;
More precious than staying up late to have fun is to see the beauty of the world clearly;
Eating on time, going to bed early, getting up early, exercising regularly and controlling emotions are probably the best gifts for the rest of your life.
If you have nothing to do in your heart, your spirit will be richer
In the summer of kijiro, there is a line:
People will grow old, life will force us to become adults, abandon the immature, become stable. And you will find that you cant go back to your former self. Its a good thing to have a childlike innocence.
The essence of childlike innocence is to let go of all the troubles and embrace the beauty around us.
I have heard the story of a distant relative, but I still feel sorry for a long time.
Every afternoon as soon as she got off work, she immediately rode home, washed and cooked, helped her husband change his clothes, and cleaned up the corners of the house.
Sometimes at night, after watching her husband fall asleep, she will make a cup of tea for herself, blowing the evening wind and feeling a moment of peace of mind.
When we talked about her situation, we didnt know how to comfort her, but she said with a smile
Although I am tired, I can at least leave a little time for myself occasionally. At least my husband is getting better every day. At least the childrens studies are smooth, and at least there is hope in life. Its enough to live with hope.
A persons life is either bitter or happy, gain or lose. What matters is that the moon cannot be absent from a clear spring in my heart.
Live too tired, the root is just too deep obsession, too much thinking.
And people who live through can often not tangle their own affairs, do not interfere with other peoples affairs, do not worry about the Gods affairs.
Those who have a mind are tired, but those who do not care.
For the rest of your life, those who are not worth it will be put down as soon as possible; if you cant do anything, you will give up as soon as possible; if you have any desires and thoughts in your heart, you will be cut off as soon as possible.
I often hear friends say that with the growth of age, I like light food more and more, simple interpersonal relationship, no longer full of resentment, more willing to face the changes of life, laugh at life.
Maybe this is the tenderness that time brings to everyone.
This is the case of father Lin in the case of Hangzhou nanny arson. After three years, he stepped out of the pain and put down his resentment day by day.
Adhere to the public welfare, donate masks during the epidemic period, restart the Tongzhen life clothing brand, which will continue the warmth again and again.
He changed his microblog name from wife and children in heaven to his real name Lin Shengbin. After losing his beloved, he still treats people in the world with his missing for his wife and children.
It seems that all this is in line with the old saying: the world kisses me with pain, but I repay it with song.
Not long ago, father Lin wrote on his microblog:
There is always a time when everything is past. Sometimes when I look back at myself after the disaster, I find that there are cracks in everything. Thats where the light comes in. Your eyes can look up at the stars, but your feet should be down-to-earth.
Only those who have no complaint in their eyes can see the truth of life.
As the writer Malks said:
Even when we are in a desperate situation and lose patience, we should always maintain a sense of humor and love life, which is the greatest wealth of our life.
A persons heart, to live in the broad; a persons eyes, to put down the sun.
Complain that things are not going well, it is better to try to give life a little buffer time, there will always be a day across the gully;
When complaining about the unfair fate, its better to try to see every corner of the world. No one can live easily;
When you complain about the bad world, youd better try to find the reason from yourself, and you can see more beauty.
After many years, I hope you and I can say with a smile:
Im young, Im down and down, Im happy, and Im passionate about life.
I like a passage in life
Life is always like this. We cant be satisfied with everything, but we still have to live with enthusiasm.
Click on looking, treat the world with tolerance and walk in the world with compassion.
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