Jin Dong is a typical late-stage actor with big tools. After he became famous with the disguiser, he kept his usual low-key, and little was known about his private life.
In fact, before he became famous, Jin Dong had already been married. Many people did not know who his wife was, or that he had already had two sons, and even his youngest son was three years old.
What more people dont know is that he also has a famous ex girlfriend, Jiang Shan.
It is estimated that young people will be very unfamiliar with the name Jiang Shan, but she is a goddess of many post-80s generation.
In 1994, the hit TV play Guo Ba Yi was Jiang Shans famous work. She was accompanied by Wang Zhiwen, an old dramatist who was also famous for this play. The theme song confused love is believed to be a few words sung by many post-80s.
Du Mei, played by Jiang Shan, is enthusiastic, unrestrained, shrewd and aggressive. She can tie her boyfriend up in all kinds of ways. She would like to go on the tiger stool and pour hot pepper water, but she is so charming that she can lift her heart and lungs, which makes people feel itchy. With this play, Jiang Shan became the goddess of the whole people and Jin Dong.
Jin Dong was admitted to the Central Academy of drama in 1999. Five years ago, Jiang Shan had already been a well-known female star. No one expected that the two people, who looked so different, would have emotional intersection one day after many years.
She rejected Jin Dong many times and felt that the age gap between them was too big, especially that she had a daughter. However, Jin Dong was very persistent, and finally moved Jiang Shan. They had been lovers for five years.
However, Jiang Shans daughter has been opposed to her mothers love because she is worried about her mothers love being separated. Jin Dong has not had the courage to propose to Jiang Shan for five years because he is not famous. After a long time, the estrangement between the two became deeper and deeper. Finally, they had to regret breaking up. Jiang Shan took her daughter to the United States.
Li Jia used to be an actress and a good actress. She graduated from the star class of Beijing Film Academy. She was classmates with Zhao Wei and Chen Kun. After graduation, she did many plays and won several awards.
Li Jia had a brief marriage with Jin Dong before. Her ex husband was a rich businessman. After she married her ex husband, she gradually withdrew from the performing arts circle and occasionally appeared on the screen. She was also a guest role with few parts. Many people think that Li Jia quit the performing arts circle for Jin Dong, but its not sure.
After she married Jin Dong, she gave birth to two sons one after another. She disappeared completely on the screen. She helped her husband and children at home. She would often bask in her life and children on Weibo. She was no different from ordinary mothers like us.
The year of 2015 is a turning point for Jin Dongs performing career. The popularity of camouflager has directly sent him to the ranks of first-line actors. Because of his popularity, Jin Dongs plays will continue in the next few years, and he will see two or three of his works on TV every year.
Jin Dong seldom mentions his family members. He hopes to protect their privacy and let his wife and children live a peaceful life without disturbing them. He occasionally talks about it and laments that it is not easy for his wife to take care of his children, and the woman who is a mother is very great.
In recent years, Jindong has been criticized in many places. For example, Weibo likes to use traditional Chinese characters to compose poems and lyrics, and pretend to be a cultural person, or he has played a single role in recent years, and each role is like an old cadre who likes to preach.
However, no one can find his fault in his personal style, because he is really conscious.
In a society where infidelity is common and divorce is easier than marriage, there are not many women who dare to be full-time wives. However, after the birth of children, they should be accompanied and educated.
If one party is too busy, one side must make concessions. No matter how hard we struggle, the majority of women make concessions for the family, which is the mothers nature.
However, the happiness of a family is not only a womans concession, but also a mans contribution
1. Keep a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex
There are always endless topics in the private life of entertainment stars. For a moment, they use a straw with the opposite sex, while they talk about scripts with the opposite sex alone in the middle of the night, and when they are drunk, they cant help but beat the girls walls. In any case, whether its true or not, there are always some people who are willing to leave their pigtails to others.
Jin Dong is different. He doesnt even want to take a kiss. The TV series surgical storm once produced some flowers. Jin Dong had a kiss with Bai Baihe and finally got a kiss. As a result, because of equipment problems, he didnt shoot it, and Jin Dong was very angry.
After making up for three seconds of kissing, Jin Dong directly told the director group, in this play of kissing easily, youd better stay away from me in the future.
He refused to make kissing scenes in order to keep a distance from the actress. He wanted to minimize his wifes worries and give her enough security. If you want your wife to be a full-time wife, you need to be alert
The co pilot is only for his wife. Dont add the wechat of the little sister and sister. If there is no crack on the egg, the fly will not bite.
Keeping enough sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is the minimum respect a man has for his wife.
If their husbands cheat, they are not even qualified to negotiate. Because they have no jobs, they cant survive. Because they dont have money, they cant get custody of their children.
Whether or not to talk about money in marriage has always been a controversial topic. Once upon a time, I also felt that husband and wife talk about money is vulgar and hurt their feelings. However, if they use feelings as a cover to kidnap their wife morally: if you care about my money, you dont believe me, it will hurt not only the feelings, but also the wifes heart.
To give the financial power to a full-time wifes wife is to show her that you are honest with her and never give up. What a woman wants is not money, but trust and peace of mind.
How tired a mother is, only mothers know that women are not afraid of fatigue. They are afraid that their own efforts will not be seen. They are already too tired to breathe. Their husbands feel that they are very idle. This is true for full-time wives. Any industry has its salary to measure its value, but a full-time wife has not.
In the Korean drama Jin Zhien, born in 82, Jin Zhien had a promising career. In order to take care of her children, she worked as a full-time mother. She took care of her children 24 hours a day and did housework. She never had a moments rest. Finally, she was tired of schizophrenia.
She wanted to go out to work, but her husband said, take a rest, the baby will be better when she is older. Jin Zhien asked in despair, is it a rest to take children?
Motherhood is great. For children, they give up image, give up rest, give up social contact, even give up their career, and then feel aggrieved. Most of them will never turn back.
The recognition and respect of the husband is the biggest support for the wife to have the courage to be a full-time wife.
At the end:
In todays society, it is not easy for everyone to live. The reason why we get married is to find a partner who can fight hand in hand. You understand my hard work. I understand your difficulty. Only two hands holding hands and shoulder to shoulder can we fight against this unfriendly world.
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