There are many reasons for marriage, but it cant be this, or it will bring hidden dangers to the relationship between husband and wife

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 There are many reasons for marriage, but it cant be this, or it will bring hidden dangers to the relationship between husband and wife


There is also a hasty son to marry.

01

Recently, a girl from Chaoshan said to me:

Im old. My family has been urging me to make a blind date.

A few, feel almost the same, now the work is busy, there is no time to delay, this is the dating man.

Im going to get engaged, get married, get pregnant, and Ill take care of these things in a month.

In her opinion, when she is old, since it is urgent to form a family, it is all right to solve this matter in the shortest time.

What I want to say is that marriage is not a matter of closing ones eyes and biting ones teeth. Marriage is the most important investment in life.

I believe that these situations do exist, but I also believe that there are many girls in Chaoshan who are no longer like this.

She didnt say, Im going to get engaged, get married, get pregnant in a month.!

There are also other departments, there are many small partners are Chaoshan, they are also very serious about setting up a family.

Its just because there is still some inertia left.

So, I think its OK to slow down this kind of thing in modern society.

Especially for girls, how can you close your eyes and bite your teeth on such an important matter in your life.

Whether its the Chaoshan girl or all the other friends who are facing the same problem, I want to tell you:

At this time, the most important thing to do is to ask yourself, is this person you want?

If so, accept it.

But there is a voice in his heart saying, this man is not what I want..

Such a decision is likely to make you regret it.

02

At that time, many people would say, if you miss marriage, isnt it equivalent to giving up the chance to get happiness?

In fact, there is not only one way to get happiness.

Marriage is not the only way to form a satisfying intimate relationship.

We often talk about marriage, just because its the choice of most people. Its an easy way to go.

Because if one tries to get something that most people cant get, he will naturally have to work harder than most people.

Its a lot more risky than most people do.

The most important thing a person should do in life is to be himself. If you dont want to get married, you should not get married. No matter how complicated the dilemma is, it should not be a reason to force yourself.

Dont force yourself, it will only hurt others and hurt yourself, and the gain is not worth the loss.

There was a girl who had been married to her husband for two months. Both of them worked in Shenzhen, and their economic life was pretty good.

But the arrival of the children broke their comfortable and peaceful life, so they gave up their work there and went back to an urban area of their hometown to get married.

Originally, they planned to find a job in the province or the city, but the girls husband had to go to a company in Beijing because of economic problems.

The nature of work belongs to the type of running around the country without fixed office location.

This is actually a tragedy of marriage.

I often say: people must not be forced to marry for any external reason.

If you want a happy marriage, you must be willing.

When a girl has entered such a situation, she can only find a way to solve the problem in this situation.

As the girl said, such a marriage is not only meaningless, but also does not get the result she wanted.

To tell each other, do not wait for innocent children to come to this world, everything is irreparable, two people to talk about this issue.

Dont delay, talk to each other clearly and stop all mistakes.

If in this situation, a girl insists on giving birth to a child, it should be prepared that the other party will not take care of herself and the child.

When a person has gone into a wrong situation, dont make mistakes again and again.

03

In this matter of marriage, never covet the so-called the other party is good to me, because the other party can treat you well today, and he can also treat you badly tomorrow.

In addition, everyone should not use children as an excuse when making decisions.

Dont say the so-called for the sake of children, to make do with it should be a more cruel thing for children.

The maintenance of two peoples marriage is not so important for children. Dont use children as an excuse and think more about what they want.

In a word, there are no reasons why you have to marry at a certain time or choose a certain partner if you want to follow your heart.

Because all the reasons are not equal to do I want to end?.

Here, I would like to share with you the common features of good marriage

First, in a sense, a good marriage has not only love, but also friendship.

A pair of good friends together can solve many problems in life and have a lot of fun. Whats more, they are friends, even couples.

Second, a good marriage knows the power of balance.

A couple who have a good relationship must know all kinds of balance, including economic situation, emotional changes, periodic tasks, internal and external relations of the family, etc.

For example, if a man supports all the expenses of his family, his wife is only responsible for spending money. In the end, he cant afford it. This is an imbalance.

If a marriage is long enough, there is a lack of common language, then we should seek progress.

The so-called common language comes from the common growth of both sides in addition to the common feelings and common aspirations. Of course, this growth needs to be in balance.

Generally speaking, if you choose to marry, no matter how many problems arise, either party needs to make another effort for love.

It is unfair to ta if only one party is paying and the other side is giving up lightly.

Even if only for their own responsibility, only for their own future do not regret, I think to work hard for marriage, is a very worthwhile thing.

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