Is it necessary to have a wedding to get married? Is it easy not to be cherished by the husband if you dont do it?

 Is it necessary to have a wedding to get married? Is it easy not to be cherished by the husband if you dont do it?

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Brother, I need help.

We have always had a good relationship and know each others families.

Because we are high school students, the hometown is the same place, so we are more knowledgeable.

Although he went to be a soldier, he was always very considerate to me, and we got along very well every time we met.

Hell be out of the army next year, and then were going to get the certificate on New Years day.

He said that he gave me some peace of mind. He only wanted to marry me in his life, so he got the certificate in advance,

If I dont have a wedding, I has the final say, I dont want to do anything but a luxurious wedding trip.

If you want to do it, you may not be able to go to Europe. Its up to me.

I used to be a dreamer about weddings, but as I grew older, I watched many friends get married.

I think the wedding is actually a kind of performance, just for relatives and friends to see, let me feel as if it is not a dream of happiness.

Then I told my boyfriend what I thought. He said he respected my opinion and let me not be under too much pressure.

In fact, I would like him to tell me whether to do it or not, but he said he didnt want me to have regrets, so I just follow my heart.

Then I asked some of my girlfriends, and they all agreed that the wedding must be held.

They all think that if there is no accident, the wedding will be once in a lifetime, and they will regret it if they dont do it.

Its too easy for me to get the wedding because Im afraid I wont be cherished in the future.

So now Im really tangled. Id like to ask the younger brother and the majority of female fans.

Do you think a wedding must be held?


A wedding can never decide whether a person treasure you or not, and it is not a pity.

That wedding is like a joke to you. It doesnt matter.

2. After the wedding, my husband is not good to you,

Do you still feel sorry for the wedding? Its a pity to marry the wrong person.

3. The wedding has been held, and your husband has always been very kind to you. That wedding is dessert.

If the wedding had been held perfectly, it would have been a decision I would never regret,

The wedding was held for a lifetime, there are still regrets, and even regret that it was better to go to a luxury wedding trip.

4. The wedding didnt take place. My husband has been very kind to you,

For the wedding that was not held, you may sometimes imagine what it would have been like if it had been held,

But you will not really regret, but will be very proud and happy to tell others,

At the beginning, we didnt have a wedding, so we can be very happy.

To put it bluntly, whether a person loves you or not depends on his / her character, not a wedding.

Although I cant guarantee that he will love you all his life, he will not change enough to love you.

But these must be from his personal experience and your marriage contradictions, communication, ways to get along with a variety of factors.

No one can say why a person doesnt love you, but I believe that as a normal person,

Youre not going to think youre cheap and easy to get just because you dont have a wedding,

And then feel no need to care for you, do not love you so much.

So, its better to ask yourself if you want to have a wedding than if you should.

If you are full of expectations and fantasies about the wedding, and your heart is yearning and yearning, then I suggest to do it. There will always be luxury tourism in the future.

But if, for whatever reason, you just do it for the sake of the wedding and dont have your own ideas, then I think its against the meaning of the wedding itself.