Childhood is the first critical period for the formation of personal identification (i.e. the formation of self-concept or psychological status). Childrens basic development includes self-worth and self-identity, such as I am good, I am good, I am liked or I am not good, I am stupid, being hated. However, children in childhood are simple and fragile, and they need positive identification from adults tolerance.
There are no parents who dont love their children, only when parents are sad about their children (strictly speaking, parents dont understand!) Attitude and language. To define this wrong is also from the psychological point of view, parents words and deeds will affect childrens psychological development. Many of our parents, starting from their ideas, are really and sincerely raising their children, which is not wrong. However, after many parents become parents, they forget that they were children, and they are afraid of being teased, bullied and hurt. They also forget how much they enjoyed the protection of elder brothers and sisters when they were children, and how much they hoped for their parents acceptance and appreciation. However, they used to adopt their parents teaching methods. Many parents are rich in love, but lack the art of how to love (discipline). The so-called art of love, in short, is that you can understand a childs sadness and needs, comfort him to accept him, and give him the courage to deal with risks.
There are no weak and stupid children, only children in the threat or severe to appear panic, helpless. We need to wake up: (parents) your childs nervousness is not really stupid, but a kind of self-defense threatened by the environment.