If the hero Si Feng meets another person, there will be no such effect. You may think what I said is nonsense. In fact, I mean, if he meets a normal girl, he wont be moved so soon.
However, Xuanji is the accident in Si Fengs life, which is also a surprise. Si Feng is excellent, handsome, calm, and a little cold. She is also one of the top roles in the palace of Li Ze. She is the one who wants to succeed.
So if it is not a particularly moving girl, he will not be casual. Whats more, he grew up in Lize palace, and no one taught him about love. There were only cold rules and cold punishments, and I didnt know what it was like for them to live.
In this world, even if there is no love, there is at least a friend, brothers and relatives and other emotions, it can also become a kind of warmth, a sustenance, a kind of strength.
In a word, before meeting Xuanji, Si Feng should also be a cold and heartless wood man. So why didnt you avoid the human love when you met Xuanji?
Is Xuanji too beautiful? Not really. Is Xuanji too perfect, too attractive, too good? In fact, they are not. To sum up, we can only say that Xuanji is different from all girls.
These differences make their meeting and getting along uncontrollable, not routine, not deliberately chasing each other, but the kind of unintentional just right.
In the end, how can we move a person like Si Feng? The following is a skill, but it is not a skill. If you realize it, you may not worry about meeting a good person and a good love.
If you dont know whether you love or not, you will not be shy or there are other concepts between men and women. Therefore, you can speak and do things simply and directly. For example, when you see Si Fengs face for the first time, you will hold his leg and ask him to take him back.
Since then, Xuanji always quarrels with Si Feng Lala. This is not to teach you to start in order to win, but because Xuanji doesnt understand whats wrong with this. For her, both men and women are the same. If they get along well, they can express themselves freely, or they can take a medicine or something.
Therefore, in Si Fengs eyes, her actions are helpless and she cant help it. Because Xuanjis heart is clear and there is no evil idea, she cant be angry even if she refutes the rule that men and women are different.
For example, when she learned to Shun Yi, she moved directly into Si Fengs bathtub and looked for her own things in the water. All the performances are ambiguous and out of the ordinary. However, Si Feng knows that Xuanji didnt mean to tease herself in this way, so that she cant resist from embarrassment and helplessness.
Of course, this point is not to let you pretend to be careless and dont understand it, but to realize from it that emotion is not too deliberate and not too hard.
If you want to get close to someone at the beginning, dont let yourself have a purpose for everything you say and do to him. Even if your purpose is to like others, it will make people feel burdened.
Start with friends, or let go of distractions and get along naturally. Feelings may be able to collide and happen slowly.
2u3001 True to pure, can express
It is the kind of person who laughs when he is happy, gets along with him as soon as he likes, and goes to him when he thinks he can do something for himself. He can say what he likes when he feels that the other party cant help but praise him. He wont suppress him or beat around the bush.
The starting point is simple, and his words are also pleasant to hear. For example, Xuanji wants to eat delicious food, and Si Feng takes her to eat it. After chatting, Xuanji says, you laugh very well. You should laugh more in the future..
Let her say this kind of words, as clear and pleasant as a spring, because she has no purpose. What she says is from the heart, not compliment, not flattery, not routine, not words as a tool to achieve the goal.
Therefore, most of her words are pleasant to listen to, moving, without thinking, without mixed thoughts, it is easy to reach the heart of a person.
From the heart to express your feelings, there is no purpose to praise each other, unmodified to say the truth, sometimes it is easier to move people. Once you say something in order to impress him, it is easy to be detected by those particularly smart people, which leads to rebellious psychology.
3u3001 Righteousness, kindness and courage
If we say that she has the love of men and women to Si Feng, then we can not say that she is righteous, courageous and kind, because it is possible that she is just good to this person.
However, judging from her attitude towards the shark and actively rushing to save him, she is a kind little cute, but she does not know that she has love in her heart.
She all from the heart, are Si Feng see in the eyes, move in the heart. Its really hard to be indifferent to her beauty.
These good virtues, if you also have them, will not worry about meeting people who understand you and love you, because it is worth it. So this is not a skill, but a character, just to see if you can meet the right person.
Otherwise, if you take a fancy to a person, you will always think about how to pursue it. If you use routine or always think hard to move, the effect may not be very good.
Most of the time, we just focus on our own light, our own beautiful, beautiful personnel will naturally come to us.
If every thing you do, every person you know has a clear intention, the wise people will see it at a glance, and you may lose your interest.