The elders in the family said, let Grandma take care of Xiaoxiao and live together..
My father has three brothers and sisters, the eldest, and the next are two younger sisters. That is to say, Xiaoxiao has two aunts. They have already married, and they dont want to take over their grandmother. They dislike trouble.
One of the details is like this: Xiaoxiaos father is a housewife and lives in her mothers house.
In this way, her parents died, and the responsibility of raising her grandmother fell on her head again.
The grandparents and grandchildren lived on a sum of money compensated by others and their grandmothers pension.
Especially after my aunts son was born, she never came to see her grandmother. They were determined to buy a house in the city for the sake of their young children.
As for Xiaoxiao, she is more than 20 years old. She is too old to become a family.
Just living in the same room roommate, by the way, to take care of grandmas life.
The relationship between the two granddaughters was not as good as others expected.
Maybe because dad was a burden at that time, grandma was not so receptive to Xiaoxiaos mother.
Xiaoxiao has always complained about his two aunts
It is clear that the responsibility of supporting the elderly should be borne by two aunts. Why should she be responsible for it?
Everyone only cares about their own small family, but no one thinks about the future for her.
In this regard, Xiaoxiao asked me what should I do?
I said, if you dont care about other peoples opinions, try to be a bad person. At least you can guarantee your own life.
The first duty of supporting the elderly should indeed be the two aunts, who are ranked first.
As a granddaughter, Xiaoxiao is willing to be kind to her grandmother and filial to her grandmother. That is her affection, but it does not mean that it is her duty.
Therefore, I directly asked two aunts for money and asked them to pay for their grandmothers living expenses on time every month.
Even if its a quarrel, we should talk about the money. We should never be afraid of being pointed at by others.
If two aunts disagree, we must know how to use the power of public opinion to cry in the family that they do not undertake the responsibility of supporting the elderly, and there will be retribution.
Secondly, they seldom visit their grandmother, so they take their grandmother to live with two aunts in turn from time to time.
Its called grandma misses her grandson and wants to hold her grandson. After living in her aunts house for a period of time, they naturally know how hard it is to take care of the elderly. They should take care of the old peoples taste when they eat. They cant make too salty or hard food, and they cant eat spicy food.
After a period of plain living, they couldnt stand it, and naturally they didnt dare to have any more opinions on Xiaoxiao.
Third, we should have a clear plan for ourselves, especially the issue of money.
I suggest Xiaoxiao carefully check his financial situation, set a goal to make money, do a good job in bookkeeping, make good money, learn how to manage money. A single girl needs to face many potential risks in her life, whether it is for buying a house in the future or for a larger goal.
In addition, it is also the most important. It is suggested that Xiaoxiao should take a health examination on time every year, be responsible for his body, take active exercise, develop good living habits, and make himself healthy.
Every family has its own difficulties. To maintain a harmonious and friendly atmosphere is the result of joint efforts of all parties. If everyone wants to evade their responsibilities, it will naturally cause internal turbulence.
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