Fangfang and I are college classmates, and the dormitory is next to each other.
One summer night, I remember very clearly, it was very hot. I was in the hallway with a small fan on the phone with my boyfriend from other places.
After a while, the sky rang out a few sultry thunder, bean big raindrops crackled on the ground.
She said she should have met true love.
It was the first time I felt her happiness so real.
It turned out that they didnt take an umbrella when they went out that day. On the way back to the dormitory in the evening, they suddenly encountered a heavy rain. Originally, they wanted to wait for the rain to stop at the gate of the teaching building, but it was only 5 minutes away from the closing of the dormitory. Fangfangs boyfriend suddenly asked her excitedly, why dont we go back to the rain?
Fangfang didnt think about it, and followed his steps into the rain.
My only thought was to go with him. She said.
So she was held tightly by him in the rain. She was afraid of thunder, so he held her closer, even holding her in his arms and covering her ears with his hands.
He left a light kiss on her wet lips as he parted.
Although Fangfangs body has been cold, the heart is so hot.
In fact, many years later, it sounds like this idea is really childish and ridiculous. But it is also because at that age, our understanding of love can be so pure.
I always thought that Fangfang and her boyfriend could go from school uniform to wedding dress.
But emotion is the most unreasonable thing.
Only half a year after graduation, my boyfriend changed. Become no longer active contact Fangfang, news is also after a long time. The answer is either Oh or MMM or OK.
She wanted to be warm, her boyfriend said to her coldly: can you be independent? Can you be less clingy? Can you give me some space?
She tried to be sensible, not cry or make noise, even when she thought of her boyfriend, she didnt dare to send a message to him. Think about that time Fangfang really poor, little by little begging for each others love.
Fangfang knows that its futile to drag on like this, so its better to break up early.
Before breaking up, Fangfang only asked the boy: do you have me in your future?
After hearing this, the boy faltered and stammered for a long time. Fangfang naturally knew what he meant, that is not.
Because a man who really loves a man has already imagined your future in his mind for thousands of times.
Fangfang and her boyfriend broke up completely that day. She didnt want to spend it with a boy who didnt have her in the future.
Later, Fangfang said to me, a mans thoughtfulness, gentleness, and understanding can be expressed immediately in front of you. Only if you want to go down with you, there is no way to pretend it, nor can it be made up in a short time and a half.
To judge whether he has changed his mind, just ask him if he has you in the future.
The man who loves you must be the one who has you in the future.
The content in it is very similar to the ambiguous conversation between her ex boyfriend and her.
She knew that her boyfriend really didnt love her.
That night, she cried bitterly. It turned out that those boyfriends didnt contact her at night. They were accompanying another girl, chatting with each other.
So to see a man change heart, as long as he has you in the future.
A person who doesnt have you in the future is not worth your waste of good love with him.
And the future without your boy, will only make you want to end the present quickly.
If that persons future is destined to be without you, then stop in time, for his good, but also for your good.
We all need a lover who will not leave home. Those who cant give us the future will always leave.
If there is a person, not only willing to accompany us, but also willing to accompany us for a lifetime, that would be great.
I hope we can all find that man.
Time is not old, never give up.
Although I cant make any decisions for you, I just hope to see you here and have more resolute courage to do what you think is right.
Dont be afraid or regret. Life is so long, a day does not end, you do not know, which person can accompany you to the end.