Judging from the rate of womens infidelity within marriage, this group is not a small number.
There is a set of Statistics:
One out of every seven and a half women is cheating.
Moreover, the rate of infidelity among Chinese women has ranked first in the world.
After that, Hou Yue, a female master of Yale University, was also betrayed by male subordinates.
Events like this are not uncommon in life.
So, what are the characteristics of women who cheat?
Lets talk about it today.
1u3001 Excessive pursuit of material satisfaction
Men take material as chips, women exchange their bodies. It seems stable on the surface, but in fact, there are many crises.
The emotional combination of barter easily leads to unbalanced psychology of derailment.
Think about the uproar before the Ma Rong derailment incident..
Why is the heat so high?
As a result, even such men have been let down.
In fact, this result can be said to be expected.
Before entering into a marriage, women have certain material requirements for men, which is a feature engraved in their genes.
But if only for the sake of material and choose a man, will inevitably cause imbalance.
This imbalance is not the imbalance of needs between men and women, but the imbalance of self needs.
There are three requirements for intimacy:
But this kind of material satisfaction is only at the level of commitment.
The lack of company and passion will inevitably lead to the imbalance of inner needs.
And this kind of psychology, as time goes on, will eventually be reflected in emotion and behavior.
There are not a few people who want to rely on one sides economic resources to achieve class leapfrogging.
But there are very few people who really use this method to get happiness.
In fact, ones internal needs are divided into different levels and stages.
For example, if a person wants to be rich at this stage, he will not worry about other factors and find a big brother with a lot of money.
When her desire for material is satisfied, she will gradually want to fill other gaps in her heart.
Or, through the emotional vent, make the family restless.
Its also an addiction
But there is a threshold for this pleasure.
When the material living conditions remain unchanged for a long time and have been internalized into a persons habit, the pleasure that money can provide will gradually fade away.
If there is no better choice for the time being, other ways may be used to alleviate or replace this addiction.
However, people who have extreme desires and goals in one aspect are not satisfied.
As a result, it is easy to lose personal wealth.
2u3001 Easily moved by giving
Sometimes the love you think is just being loved and being moved by being loved.
Li Xiaolu said in a variety show: I accept Jia Nailiang because of my parents.
As long as Li Xiaolu wants to buy clothes, he is willing to brush off 29000 even if the balance is only 30000;
Even if you are sick, you should insist on flying to Li Xiaolu to spend Christmas with her;
On rainy days, Li Xiaolus shoes were not touched by the rain, so he picked her up and crossed the road;
What style of male star Li Xiaolu likes, Jia Nailiang tries to get close to her favorite style
Its easy to give people the illusion of love.
Because the existence of this relationship depends only on the maintenance of one person.
Hugo said: love is a mixture of various passions, including the worship of the body and the spirit.
If you fall in love with a persons stable value, such as wealth, talent, self-cultivation, appearance, etc., then your mood in the relationship will be relatively stable.
First, the lack of love in the heart is irreparable no matter how much the other party does.
Second, in such an emotional relationship, it seems that you are in a high position, but in fact, the initiative lies in the other party. Your sense of security comes from whether he continues to pay and invest in you.
So the woman in such a relationship has neither the satisfaction of love nor the sense of security.
I just want to find one thats good for me.
There is nothing wrong with this standard, but the moving false love is undoubtedly a dangerous seed for the relationship between two people.
Or, the girl meets the true love, falls into the tangle, even derails.
Either the boy is tired of giving, ends the relationship, and both sides are hurt.
Just like the relationship between Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang, one pays and one is moved.
When Li Xiaolus charm value, which Li Xiaolu cant refuse, appears in the third party, and has a sense of worship, the impact of this feeling is hard to resist.
And the price that cannot be resisted is huge.
3u3001 Too much emphasis on sexual liberation
Feminism is not an excuse for infidelity and promiscuity.
This sentence is intended to express womens sexual autonomy, but it has become an excuse for false womens rights to cheat and promiscuous.
On Weibo, a man shared his chat with his girlfriend.
Its just a liberation of nature. For me, its an experience and a feeling.
The cheating and agreement Pao is so fresh and refined.
Cheating is cheating. Whats the matter with sexual liberation?
Theres nothing to be washed white about cheating, both men and women.
Since two people choose to enter into a marriage, it means that they recognize each others commitment to loyalty.
Most of the time, infidelity has little to do with love or not. It reflects a persons sense of responsibility and moral standards.
Indeed, no one can guarantee that after entering into a relationship, you will not fall in love with others.
But at least, we can choose a relatively harmless way to deal with it. For example, after ending a relationship, we can calmly move on to the next one.
The biggest difference between man and animal is that:
People can restrain their instinctive impulses and face their various needs with restraint and rationality.
People who dont know how to respect others in their feelings dont really respect themselves.
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