If a person despises you from the beginning, is full of dislike and alienation to you, he is not willing to pay the necessary time and emotion for you, you should not waste too much energy for him, you should learn to let go as soon as possible.
Two people together need mutual understanding and tolerance. Only when you have a deep understanding of a persons true inner thoughts, and you are willing to move in the same direction or goal, your feelings will be full of cohesion and centripetal force.
Generally speaking, women do this, men will not easily break up with you.
1. Can talk to each other
If you are always silent with each other, you cant talk together at all. Apart from quarrelling, you are cold war. Its easy for your feelings to have deep cracks.
In a relationship, you should try to think from a mans point of view. You should be able to really think in one place and exert yourself in one place.
Many misunderstandings and contradictions in your feelings are often caused by your poor communication.
When you really talk about everything, no matter what kind of topics you talk about, you will not feel embarrassed or cold, and your feelings will gradually warm up.
2. Gentle and considerate enough
Women should remember that in this world, no man would like to live with a woman who has a bad temper for a long time. When you want to have a stable and lasting relationship, you should first be gentle and considerate enough to him, and you should let him fully feel your sincerity.
The reason why a man would want to break up with you is often because you are not gentle and considerate to him. Instead, he is often deliberately difficult to make, and he is always in a dilemma.
There is no once and for all feeling in this world. When you want to have a happy and sweet relationship, you have to pay the necessary price for it. You should be considerate enough to him.
What you ask of him should be reasonable and not beyond his ability. Once your existence becomes his burden or burden, he may be unable to help and you gradually drift away.
If you are too strong or overbearing in your relationship, your attitude towards a man is too arrogant, and you dont pay attention to him at all, then no matter how much a man loves you, he cant help but gradually leave you.
A woman who makes a man reluctant to let go, she often does things in a proper way, and she is good at controlling her temper and mood. Even if she has more opinions or complaints about men, she will pay attention to the tone and attitude of her speech. She will not criticize him for no reason, but try to express her views or suggestions in a way that men can accept.
When a man disagrees with you, dont rush to deny his opinion, but listen to his explanation patiently. When you can put yourself in his shoes and keep good communication and negotiation with him, a man will not break up with you easily.
When two people are together, they should help each other, learn from each others strong points and make up for each others weaknesses. They can face any problems hand in hand and actively resolve them. If you are always good at making opinions and acting on your own, you will not get a mans sincerity, but you will easily lose his sincerity.
In a word, if a woman wants to have a relationship that doesnt break up, you should pay attention to keep good communication and interaction with men at ordinary times. You should be able to truly understand his difficulties and understand his difficulties.
The reason why a relationship is broken is often due to the lack of communication and communication between you for a long time. When you and a man live apart for a long time, you usually ignore him, and you dont pay attention to the way of speaking and communication skills. If a man loves you again, he may gradually alienate you.
The reason why a man is reluctant to part with a woman is that she can really understand his inner feelings and thoughts, and can help him solve real problems or difficulties.
If you usually lack of respect and trust for a man, and you are not sincere and frank with him, you are always silent or worried in front of him, and he may gradually alienate and neglect you.
Of course, if a man from the beginning is not willing to love you wholeheartedly, he is full of perfunctory and indifference to you, you should not take great pains to him, you should learn to love yourself well.
Whether a man is really worth keeping depends on how much he cherishes you. When a man is not willing to treat and cherish you, he said that he loved you, but he wanted to break up with you. No matter how much you love him, you should persuade yourself to let go as soon as possible.
Women have to remember that its hard to wake up a man who pretends to be asleep. Once you realize that a man doesnt have you in his heart, you should stay away from him and find a man who loves you wholeheartedly for the rest of his life.
Only when you really enjoy each other, you can share weal and woe, never give up, your feelings will not be broken easily.