She went shopping no longer to look for me, her heart no longer told me, although face to face every day, but every day said only a few words.
Later, after they parted ways, I realized that we had never lived on the same channel from the beginning.
She likes to eat sweet, and I like spicy food; she loves suspense reasoning, and I am addicted to variety comedy; she only digests everything in her heart, but I am the one to share all the trivial matters.
Originally, I thought that we could complement each other and promote each other, but after living together for a long time, I found that she had her life circle, and I had my activity radius. We could not bring any of us.
Because life is not on the same channel, no matter how hard we try, we always run counter to each other. Later, we had to separate and not live together.
Now think about it, in fact, whether it is work, life, or love, we should be with the same frequency of people, the best.
Because the frequency of people, it is difficult to produce resonance, together with each other will be depressed and aggrieved, can not get real spiritual relaxation.
Richard Yates said in eleven kinds of loneliness: I think the so-called loneliness is the person you are facing. His emotions are not in the same frequency as your own emotions.
I dont know if youve ever had a similar experience.
Is clearly and the most loved one together, but often feel lonely.
Its like: you almost miss the bus because you work overtime temporarily, and you are so nervous that you want to cry, but the other party thinks that you are too sensitive to trifles;
You share the people and things you meet with him; he is expressionless, but turns to talk about the country, the country, astronomy and geography;
He doesnt care about the good life you yearn for; he cant understand everything you care about.
Friend Dalin and his ex girlfriend were once such a couple.
Their biggest contradiction is that apart from the lack of common language, more importantly, Stalin has been trying to move towards a higher and better life, while his ex girlfriend has been enjoying comfort and enjoying the happiness of the moment.
The direction of the two peoples efforts is not the same. Stalin has been moving forward, but his ex girlfriend is still in the same place. Stalin cant persuade his ex girlfriend to follow his own pace, and Stalin cant do the same as his ex girlfriend to enjoy a comfortable life. Therefore, each other slowly began to be unable to understand each other, and communication became difficult.
Some people say that everyone has his own frequency. Only the right person can have the same frequency. People with the same frequency can resonate even if their phase is different for a while.
I thought at that time, good feelings, probably can produce resonance.
The best destination of love is to find a person with the same frequency.
TA can understand the bitterness in your heart, and will accompany you to work hard and make progress together. Many things can fit in without saying much.
In this era full of anxiety, in fact, each of us, in our whole life, is just looking for a person with the same frequency.
As the elegance of the hedgehog says:
We are all lonely hedgehogs, only people with the same frequency can see each others hidden elegance in their hearts.
Yes, everyone is born lonely, and with the same frequency of people, feelings have resonance, in order to have a good understanding.
I have to admit that it is not necessary to deliberately disguise and compromise love, in order to truly nourish each other and make common progress.
It may not be easy to start with the same channel, but the bitterness and bitterness experienced by two people together is enough to comfort the whole life.
And you will eventually find that the person with the same frequency is the best choice in love.
If you can meet the same frequency of people, it is a lifetime of great luck, to cherish.
Finally, click watching. I sincerely hope that each of us can become the lucky one.