Therefore, a long-term love, in addition to the timing of fate, also requires two people to love each other sincerely, cherish each other, work together to face and solve the problems in life, which is the so-called harmony of land and people.
Good love needs mutual support and mutual fulfillment
Many people are moved by the first love between Ming LAN and Qi Heng, but I am often moved by Ming LAN and Gu tingye.
At first, minglan didnt like Gu tingye very much. In the face of Gu tingyes crazy pursuit, she was entangled and struggling in her heart. She wanted to get out of the circle and live a new life, and was afraid that she could not control the future.
When xiaogongye always competes with Gu tingye in the court, minglan goes to persuade him not to cling to the past and learn to look forward. After Gu tingye is in prison, minglan does not hesitate to refuse his request to leave, and does nothing to redress his injustice.
Gu tingye is also dedicated to minglan. When he knew that minglan was fighting alone because of the old lady Sheng, he ran two horses and came back to support minglan. In his eyes, as long as minglan wanted to do something, that was right.
Such a couple, who support each other and help each other, have become an indestructible whole. Therefore, Gu tingyes stepmother, the empress dowager, and even the Empress Dowager will sigh later that Gu tingye married minglan, which is like a tiger with wings.
In fact, husband and wife are originally a cooperative system, and the Convention of marriage can not completely bind two people. However, if both husband and wife understand what is dead lips and cold teeth, they should be able to understand how to manage their feelings well.
Dont give all your good temper and kindness to the outsider, but leave your bad temper and malice to your partner. If you do this, you will eventually lose the one who is most sincere to you.
Marriage is not a matter of one or two days. In this marathon of life, we need to encourage and support each other with our teammates to complete the race well. I hope you can understand this truth and learn to cherish it.
Since you have chosen each other, you should be loyal and trust
Loyalty and trust are a pair of interdependent emotions. Because they are loyal to each other, they trust each other. This is the basis for a relationship to develop healthily.
In know it or not, many people think that it is a miracle that minglan and Gu tingye can get together. After all, Gu tingye witnessed the unforgettable feelings between minglan and Qiheng, and Gu tingyes own emotional experience is too rich.
Such two people together, how to think will have too many problems, but they are just a good combination together, although there will be contradictions, but also absolutely trust each other, because they know the person they choose, also know that the past things have passed, and will not have the slightest hesitation.
In real life, most people will have problems with their predecessors. There are too few people who can go directly from first love to marriage.
For the other half of the ex, you can be jealous, which is no problem, but you must master the degree of it. Dont suspect each other at will, and put some unnecessary charges on the other side, because the most important thing between lovers is to trust each other. If you always try, you will feel tired and finally let your relationship end.
In know or not, Gu tingyes greatest wish is that minglan can be herself. However, due to the family changes since her childhood, minglan has been living cautiously and dare not show her true feelings in front of anyone. So when she just got married, minglan was just trying to be a big lady. Gu tingye used concubines to stimulate her. She accepted with a smile. No matter what Gu tingye did, she adopted it appropriately.
This makes Gu tingye very mad. He thinks that this is the performance that minglan doesnt love himself enough. So when he heard that minglan went to the queen after he was in prison, he was very excited, because he felt that this was the performance of minglans love for himself.
I can understand Gu tingyes idea, and I feel very moved. If you really love someone, you dont want to make her sensible and decent, but hope that she can show the most real side in front of herself. This fear of not giving enough feeling to the other side is the best love.
You might as well give him a little sweet little stimulation occasionally. If he cant stand this test, he is not the right person for you.
Of course, the matter of jealousy should also have a degree, not endless and unrestrained, you have to know, anything occasionally appears is good, but often will let people annoy you.
I believe that as long as you love each other deeply and love you, you will know what the other party wants and get what you want most.
People in this life, to experience a lot of ups and downs, when they go alone may be very difficult, but if you can have a right person has been accompanied, you can be much easier.
And the partner should be longer than the parents and children accompany us, so when we get along with them, we must learn to exchange the true feelings with our heart.
If youre also running a relationship that belongs to you, remember that if you try to do these three things, your relationship may last longer.
Im Xiyan, a columnist. Im a young girl who is neither old nor old. I like to write warm words and do emotional programs. I have published the rest of your life, which is related to me. If you have a story, please come to me.