I just went out, my husband called me: baby, dont be afraid, I believe you can handle it well. I dont go out today, Ill wait for your news at home. Call me whenever you need to, and Ill be right there.
In such a word, I believe him in my heart, because he has given me enough trust and respect my decision.
That day, I met my ex boyfriend and said: there is no possibility between us any more. If you dare to harass me again, I will call the police to solve the problem!
Let him give up his heart completely and stop expecting the combination of two people.
At that time, I broke up with him because he was often cruel to me. Soon after we broke up, my boyfriend (now my husband) had better conditions than him. He was not willing to accept it. He wanted to save me because of his vanity.
But, broke up, on behalf of me will not look back, I also know this man is not suitable for me.
Now, my husband has been married for 12 years. I have a son and a daughter. I have been at home full-time for 9 years.
In the first three years, I took care of my baby while working. I couldnt bear it. Later, I asked my aunt to help me with the baby, which relieved our pressure.
By the fourth year, my husbands career had been on the rise, and I had also chosen to be a freelancer. The time was relatively free and it was convenient to take care of two children.
We have never had a quarrel over economic problems. It may be because both of us have a relatively good economic level.
My husband always said that everything in the family is mine. There is no need to worry about it. He is very grateful to me for my efforts. He takes care of all the big and small things in the family in good order. My parents in law are also very satisfied with me.
In the past 12 years, there were angry quarrels, but after the quarrel, there was no irreconcilable principle problem. Our requirement was that we should not quarrel overnight, otherwise one of them would have to sleep in the living room.
Therefore, I would like to advise you that you cant just try to be nice to your husband. In case he doesnt do you good, dont you have nothing?
Therefore, to get married or to see other aspects, to observe whether the mans behavior is magnanimous? Is it kind and loving? Are you filial to your parents?
The most important point is: what kind of people are his parents and how they get along with each other.
The original family is like an original. Only when the original is ready, as a copy of the child, can he be physically and mentally healthy and have enough happiness.
It is often said that marriage is the grave of love, but if you want to maintain a good relationship, it can also become the fresh-keeping cabinet of your love, rather than the end of love.
However, this needs not only your seriousness, but also your wisdom.
Marriage also needs to take care to keep fresh. If you have a positive attitude towards the relationship, and have a sense of ceremony to the feelings, and give each other a little surprise from time to time, then the freshness will always be there and will not change from love to family affection.
So, how to deal with the problem of keeping fresh?
First, we should constantly improve ourselves.
The origin of love is appreciation, and the terminator is boredom.
The only way to keep your feelings in dynamic balance is to constantly improve yourself and keep yourself fresh and in a change.
Elusive and mysterious can make people have the desire to understand and explore.
Trust is the premise and foundation of all love, because we believe in each other, we will choose to spend the rest of our lives with each other.
If a family has a crisis of trust and doubts each other everywhere, everything will be bad, and the emotional foundation will be shaken.
If you are the lover of your choice, dont doubt his ability. Give him a little confidence and let him do things freely.
When he mops the floor, dont worry about not mopping up the floor. When he goes out to do business, dont doubt that it will be ruined. Everyone needs to grow up.
Trust him, believe that he can do well, then everything will go in the direction you want, optimistic attitude, not too pessimistic.
Third: replace criticism with praise.
Living under the same roof, in the long-term process of getting along with each other, you will find many shortcomings of each other, and even gradually enlarge.
After all, we may have conflicts when we live with our parents, let alone our partners. Everyone has his own preferences.
Over the years, they will also form their own lifestyle and habits, and it is difficult to change them immediately.
If its not a matter of principle, you dont have to worry about it, criticize less and look at the advantages of the other side.
You can often praise how capable and excellent he is. He has such a good vision that he married such a good husband.
Daisaku Ikeda of Japan once pointed out the relationship between marriage and youth
Marriage is the end of youth, but also the starting point for a happy life. In order to make it bear good fruit, we should not be anxious, we should be cautious and sincere.
In marriage, the person who should love most is himself. Only those who have the ability to love themselves are qualified to be loved.
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