In the name of family: the collapse of Lingxiao people? The dregs in warm mens clothes all have these characteristics

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 In the name of family: the collapse of Lingxiao people? The dregs in warm mens clothes all have these characteristics


Lingxiaos biological mother came back from Singapore. After the two finally reconciled, his mother and half sister had a car accident on the way to Singapore, unconscious.

It is mainly manifested in the following three trough points:

1. Warm men dont avoid suspicion

Qi Mingyue told Li Jianjian about Zhao Huaguangs visit to he Ziqiu, and he Ziqiu lost his temper against Qi Mingyue.

At this time, the warm elder brother went online. She came to comfort Qi Mingyue from the sky, praised her intelligence and beauty, and encouraged her not to deny herself because of others, but to have self-confidence.

At this moment, Qi Mingyue looked at him with different eyes. Later, she wrote Lingxiao into her composition, saying, at that moment, I felt that he was shining!

With Lingxiao perception, we should not feel Qi Mingyues love for him.

When I was in Singapore, I didnt contact Li Jianjian, but I contacted Qi Mingyue, saying that she regarded this girl as a tool to understand her sisters movements.

Qi Mingyue sent Lingxiao to the airport, but before he got off the bus, he even took the initiative to kiss him. He did not refuse or draw a clear line.

Mingming doesnt like Qi Mingyue. She just treats her as her sister, but treats each other in the same way as her boyfriend, making the other party mistakenly understand.

Perhaps in Lingxiaos eyes, this is just a sisters behavior, but did not consider other peoples ideas.

2. Weakness

Lingxiao has lived with her mother in Singapore for nine years, and has never returned home.

When he plucked up the courage to say that he wanted to settle in China, his mother detained Li Lingxiaos passport and smashed his mobile phone to prevent him from contacting his family in China.

The original family gave him a broken childhood, but he did not have the courage to draw a clear line with the originator. He has been suffering from not only himself, but also his family in China.

3. Double label

Lingxiao and Li Jianjian together, very sweet, fancy confession you are my medicine..

Let Qi Mingyue supervise Li Jianjian to fall in love, and return home to confirm the love relationship. Li Jianjian is required to keep a distance with his younger brother immediately.

But he himself did not keep a distance with Qi Mingyue, as before.

In nine years, too much can be changed.

Lingxiao just asked Li Jianjian to keep his feelings until he came back, but he couldnt do it. He came back to see her once in nine years. Lingxiao has some double marks for her development.

Although the story line of a TV play is the result of the arrangement of the screenwriter, we should watch the drama rationally.

Return to real life, there will be some scum men dressed as good men, single-minded and infatuated, and act selfishly.

01

A friend asked, is there really a warm but not slag boy? It cant be said that its not 100%, but 99.99% is not.

Just like a person has a special function, make a wish and a gold falls from the sky. Do you think he can make a wish every day?

But this misunderstanding can give them more opportunities to have their own follow-up development.

We need to know the mate selection strategy of male students. One is to use the long-term mate selection strategy. Each long-term choice relationship treats his or her partner exclusively and raises offspring together with his partner.

The other is short-term spouse selection, which only talks about the present feeling and not the future.

Using the posture of pretending to be a long-term choice blinds the girls, and only after that they say that they have no plans to marry and have children, thus delaying the girls youth.

Third, the mixed mate selection strategy, long-term selection of a partner, but at the same time do not let go of other heterosexual opportunities.

But only responsible for long-term selection, short-term selection does not care.

If a girl intends to enter into a long-term relationship, she must avoid the latter two kinds of dregs.

The lucky man heals his life with his childhood, while the unfortunate man heals his childhood with his whole life

In general, the original family of slag man is usually very complicated.

In particular, there are many older sisters of such boys, they will be very understanding of female psychology.

If you find a boy, his original family is too complicated, for example, his parents have many marriages, and then his previous love history is also very complicated.

Then girls must be careful with each other.

If a boys father has bad habits, such as taking drugs, gambling, and drinking, etc.

The original family is the first environment that everyone comes into contact with since he was born.

Parents are their first teachers. If the upper beam of his parents is not correct, then the lower beam is also easy to be crooked.

2. Low self esteem

They can even slap their faces and ask for forgiveness. Some boys tattoo their girlfriends names and various repentance letters.

Some girls said they couldnt tell whether they were kneeling or really loving her

Heres a little way:

For example, there are no special circumstances for boys to wash feet for girls, but what about girls?

She certainly is not willing, then do not accept the other party to give you this kind of service.

The other is kneeling and licking men have no desire to protect.

3. Trial + Disclaimer

Most of the dregs in the beginning of contact with the actual action hint themselves slag, but some girls did not pay attention to.

Just met soon, and girls said that their friends flash marriage, married very happy son.

If his girlfriend feels uncomfortable with the opposite sex, he will face a heavy face: if you dont believe me like this, I cant help it.

Im playing with other people. Its true love to you. I didnt expect you to be so ignorant. Im disappointed.

I want to marry you. I only like you because you are sensible.

If a boy often says these things to the girl, sometimes he suppresses and sometimes tries, the girl may be brainwashed and thinks that he is not sensible.

Friend Xiao Yun said that he hated slag man most, but he always met unreliable boys. How can girls get rid of dregs in contact with boys?

1. Choose a mate without greed

Learn to objectively evaluate the value of their partner, mate selection is not greedy.

Dont covet the kind of people whose conditions are better than their own, and be alert to the perfect man, so as not to fall into the trap of slag man.

At the beginning of communication, slag man will create a perfect set of people. He is considerate and successful in his career, which is very deceptive.

Finally, the girl had to use it when she was pregnant, or it was evaporation from the human world. It was so dregs that it could no longer be used.

Unmarried girls must not be greedy. If a boy with good conditions meets you, first of all, he is not secretly happy, but asks himself, is he really so good?

Do I really know enough about him? Is he the one worth spending my life with?

If a man is successful in his career and on call, he has a lot of time to chat with you every day to create romance, which is very doubtful in itself.

Rich people are not so idle, if you are not a beautiful woman, then carefully examine the other side, show the conditions are true.

At the same time, find some people around you who are higher than your EQ to help you analyze.

2. Watch out for pig teammates

Xiao Yuns ex boyfriend came to retrieve her. He had cheated her by cheating others. Now he said he knew he was wrong and hoped to be together again.

She asked her best friend, who said he knew he was wrong, so give him a chance.

Then Xiao Yun got back together with his predecessor without any real commitment.

It wasnt long before the ex cheated again.

I told Xiao Yun that if you want to have a single-minded relationship after marriage, this boy is definitely not a good match. He should stay away from this poisonous girl.

Peoples hearts cant stand the test.

People around you are likely to be the same as girls, making a mess of ideas. If you cross your friends, the other party will catch up with you and pry into the corner. You will be betrayed and blocked.

3. Dont be too eager for emotional value

Many girls know that slag man is not good, but they still cant leave it. Instead, they repeatedly encounter slag man and may have to find the crux.

Ordinary straight men dont have much experience in love and dont understand romance. They may have to tell them what they like, and they will pay again.

And slag mans romance is endless, may follow the romantic love song, can take you to experience the emotional experience of roller coaster.

Girls must stay awake and tell themselves that they are not special ones.

Slag men will smell the smell and bribe us with emotional value. When girls are inseparable, they will expose the short board of all kinds of dregs, and let girls be rescue messengers.

When we are full of positive energy, those scum men will be easily avoided by us.

When you meet a real high-quality boy of your own, you will attract what kind of person you are.

The author, Lu Meiran, has a double masters degree in overseas returnees. She is good at guiding older white-collar women to take off their orders and improve their emotional intelligence. Her emotional counseling cases have lasted for more than one week and helped more than 2000 visitors to answer questions.