424 days after her divorce from the article, Ma Yili was scolded for being hot. Did she really feel relieved?

 424 days after her divorce from the article, Ma Yili was scolded for being hot. Did she really feel relieved?

She compares a woman to an egg.

The ultimate mission of an egg is not to be a fertilized egg. It can be just an egg.

We hope that the society will allow each egg to become its own.

Dont carry too many missions.

At first glance, there is nothing wrong with it.

But after the speech came out, it unexpectedly caused the opposition of the public.

Said she was anti science.

She said she didnt have low back pain when she stood talking.

She even said she spread distorted values.

Netizens query is well founded.

Looking back on the past, Ma Yili did beat himself frequently.

When he was young, he regarded himself as an independent woman.

Claim to be angular.

For example, breast-feeding is the best.

Who knows, five years later, still divorced.

Some people say shes a bad girl.

Some people say she made it.


In the round table school, Dou Wentao said bluntly: Ma Yili is a working girl.

Ma Yili even admitted.

Its hard and hard.

The education level of Ma Yilis parents is not high.

Raising children depends on stick education.

Children who are beaten usually have two reactions.

Or, cry for mercy.

Or, the more you play, the more you twist.

Ma Yili belongs to the latter.

The seed of wry Ba, let her give birth to hard.

Children should have natural dependence on their parents.

But Ma Yili, who has been very hard since childhood, feels that dependence is a kind of shame.

Shes always fighting.

I dont like it.

Finally, he made himself unhappy, his family angry, and both sides were hurt.

Unfortunately, she is not really hard.

When I was in college,

When she and the boys go out to dinner, they have to take the AA system.

She is always shaped by her fathers independent personality.

The bottom born father,

Taste the world and know that it is right to rely on yourself.

However, he did not know that the excessive emphasis on Independence made Ma Yili lose the ability to make demands.

I want it.

I need it.

In a short period of six words, it has become the subject of Ma Yilis life.

But her favorite is Charlene.

Every time I talk about feelings,

Lu taoshuang made an appointment.

Charlene ran to his house in silence.

Lu Tao wants to apologize.

Charlene doesnt know how to be coquettish.

The same is true of Ma Yili.

In her career, she became a new representative of independent women.

In 2008, they married.

At that time, the couple, eight years apart, became a model of marriage between a woman and a man.

He turned in his salary in full.

It is insisted that the greatest achievement in life is to marry Ma Yili.

What about Ma Yili?

She seems to be satisfied, too.

The article is not well-known and does not meet her requirements for strength.

But the article is willing to show weakness.

He always put her first and let her control the whole situation.

This is too much for Ma Yili.

Until 2014, derailment doors broke out.

The skin of the perfect couple is still torn.

After all, the little man chose the weaker woman.

Everyone is waiting for Ma Yili to make a statement.

However, she did not.

The wife of the self Yi independent woman chose to forgive.

In 2015, Ma Yilis birthday.

He confessed: Xiaowen used to be unreliable, but today I want to be reliable. You are everything. Wife, please marry me

Ma Yili agreed with a smile.

5 years of repair,

In the end, some of the cracks still cant be sewn up.


After the derailment door was exposed, many people came to a conclusionu2014u2014

Cheating is a mans nature.

Wild flowers are better than home flowers.

Is that true?

On the surface, Ma Yili returned to his family after marriage.

Give the article enough face.

Every penny earned by the article went into her pocket.

In 2013, Ma Yili participated in an interview with Kefan listening.

Cao Kefan asked with a smile: is Ma Yili in charge of the whole family?

The answer of the article is very intriguing.

In other words, he didnt really want to be a shopkeeper, but there was no place for him at home.

After the derailment door,

In the round table school, Ma Yili changed her old domineering spirit.

The derailment door did not destroy Ma Yili.

On the contrary, this crack has become an opportunity.

Let her finally realize that she has been struggling with herself.

In her career, she will independent women to the extreme.

In marriage, she is in charge of everything.

Take care of the family.

But behind the perfection is the lack of security.

Im afraid I cant master the whole situation.

Marriage is.

Family is.

Until 2019.

The article is gone.

Her life, just ushered in a turning point.

Just after the divorce, Ma Yili had a bad time.

Self denial oppresses her heart.

She never cried in front of her daughter because it was a sign of cowardice.

I left my little daughters old passport at home, which resulted in a delay of only one day.

It was just a small thing.

But she started crying at the airport.

She tried to control her emotions.

But found that, no matter how hard, the mood has been falling.

At worst, she couldnt get out of bed.

She felt hopeless.

Its full of frustration.

I want to complain with my friends, but I have an unexpected harvestu2014u2014

Now Ma Yili is very good.

Its soft.

Its human.

These feedback, refresh her cognition.

Originally, armor is protection.

At the same time, it will become a shackle.

Always strive for perfection, to the end crushed others, but also hurt themselves.

Its about making yourself comfortable.

She thinks that she just uses the needs of women nowadays to create various kinds of facilities.

I dont agree.

There is nothing wrong with Ma Yilis remarks.

Before she was 30, she devoted her energy to her career.

After 30, shes focused on her family.

She is a platform for working mothers.

We call for your understanding and attention.

After 40, she divorced.

After the ordeal, another door of life opened for her.

That is, the real self.

She was no longer afraid of embarrassment.

And no longer deny vulnerability.

Facing the frustration of life,

She thinks: theres no need to be so good all the time.

But she changed.

Talk about sex.

Talk about desire.

Talk about production.

However, netizens said that these are just human settings.

I feel wronged.

So, you can see her flaws and mistakes.

But it is these mistakes that promote her maturity, let her take off the hardness and embrace tenderness and reality.

After the divorce,

She gave an interview with extraordinary Tao.

It really touched meu2014u2014

Life is not a growth, but a growth.

Only older people,

Life is falling.

To experience, to try, to challenge,

Will be limited life, live the most beautiful length.

Now, she just wants to give up perfection.


Author: there are duck eggs