Xie Xingfang said that she had been estranged from her parents since she was a child, so she always lacked a sense of security. Even after meeting Lin Dan, she also said that she lacked love. So I hope our family is full of love. Whether Lin Dan goes out or comes back, I hope we will hug or kiss. Xie Xingfang bluntly said, after all, the original family will affect the life of children.
Xie Xingfang also revealed that her parents had never been to Beijing to see her since she joined the national team in 1998, until after the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games. I havent visited Beijing once in ten years. That time, they came to Beijing to see me because my runner up didnt make a trip. In fact, I know my parents love me very much, but their expression will make you very resistant, Xie Xingfang recalled.
When I said I was thirsty and wanted to drink water, my mother said, dont drink water, drink soup, its nutritious! Xie Xingfang recalled, she would care about you with an imperative tone. Your first reaction is of course very resistant, but when you calm down, you will feel that she is caring about you.
It is this kind of unspoken love and imperative care of her parents that made Xie Xingfang develop a quiet and introverted personality when she was young. She even thought that she missed the womens singles champion in 2008 Olympic Games because she didnt have the tone to fight forward.
Always feel very sorry is the 2008 Olympic Games, especially hate their own such a character. Xie Xingfang said that she especially envied her husband Lin Dans warm and domineering personality. If I was born in a family like Lin Dan, I could also become the champion of the 2008 Olympic Games. His parents have a great influence on his character. They are very warm and hospitable
After becoming a mother, Xie Xingfang also had a deeper understanding of marriage. Marriage is not black or white. Every family has its own contradictions, which can not be solved by outsiders. Xie Xingfang said, marriage is self-conscious. There is no reward for what you have paid. Mutual tolerance and understanding are the right way to get along with each other. Lin Dan and I will not interfere too much in each others affairs, but as long as I do something, he will fully support me.
Source: Netease sports Author: Benbo Erba editor: Wang Chengcheng_ NB12651