Zhong Xiaoqin, as a little girl born and raised in Shanghai, is the most enviable.
But back to reality, in fact, many people are not satisfied with the original family.
For example, the actress Mao Xiaotong, who plays Zhong Xiaoqin, has a completely opposite original family.
Her father used to throw her as a baby in a garbage can and never raised a child. However, when Mao Xiaotong became an adult, he had the cheek to buy out the love between father and daughter by 50 million yuan..
And Chen Baolian, Zhang Shaohan, Cai Shaofen They all had disaster families.
Can a native family really affect a persons life?
How do those who get out of the shadow of their original family do it?
Author: Zichen source: woman with fragrant soul (ID: lixiaoyilhyxqdnz)
Thirty just is hot, and the costume drama Huo Qubing will be broadcast again. She plays Zhen e, the confidant of Huo Qubing, a famous general of the Western Han Dynasty, from a humble maid to a beautiful general on the battlefield.
The female general in Huo Qubing
According to Baidu Mao Xiaotong, in addition to the new drama, the most prominent entry is thrown into the garbage can by my father..
This scene of crossing the old society is staggering, but it really happened in 1988.
Mao Xiaotong follows her mothers surname.
Xiaotongs mothers family is not good. She dropped out of school at the age of 16 to take care of her younger brother and sister, and then got married early.
Poverty is the original sin of marriage, because poverty will circle the choice radius of a girl. Even if she is smart and sober, she still has to bow down to life.
After Xiaotongs mother got married, she found that her teenage husband, Li, had fatal moral defects: alcoholism, gambling and drug abuse, which were enough to turn an ordinary person into a madman.
She had to rely on her own strength to support her family. She was still selling Yuanxiao at a stall until she was in labor.
The figure very static distance
The mother and daughter who left the delivery room did not receive any care from him.
When her daughter was less than one year old, the strong woman decided to divorce. She sold ice hockey, opened a restaurant, ran a beauty salon, and tried her best to raise her daughter alone.
Such an excellent mother can not help but be strong in her daughters education. Mao Xiaotong hated her mother when she was a child, but she understood that all strict restrictions are for her own good.
The figure very static distance
But Li, who has been absent for 30 years, was released in 2018. The first thing he did was go on TV and ask for money from her daughter, who is in the rising stage of her career, in front of the national audience!
Li first complained of her daughters ingratitude, then sold miserably said that he had no financial resources, and then turned to show his sharp teeth
(picture) law eye barrister of Tianjin Science and education channel
However, Lis wishful thinking did not succeed. After a storm in the city, the end was rotten, because Mao Xiaotong was not a soft persimmon kneaded by others.
When she was 14 years old, she found her mother fainted from gas poisoning. She did nothing to help her. She did not shed tears until the ambulance door was closed;
How can such a clean and decisive girl allow herself to roll in the mud pit and pester with the rotten people and things?
The same bad family background, similar bad experience, let me think of another name - Chen Baolian.
She is very beautiful. She has an impeccable dust lust face, but she is not vulgar. She has the wild long hair of Hong Kong Style actress Miro seaweed, and her eyes are full of greed, anger and infatuation. It seems that she can be seen through when she looks at you.
Still photo of Douban film Modern Call Girl
Chen Baolians family is just as bad.
When his parents divorced at the age of 4, his father disappeared and never came back to see his daughter.
Chen Baolian lived with her grandmother in Shanghai. She was only 12 years old when she was brought to Hong Kong by her mother. A few years later, he began to work as a part-time model, and then signed up for a film company.
When she got to the set, she knew that the film contract was a third-class film and that her mother signed it for her.
Still photo of Dengcao monk
A group of actresses who have taken off their clothes have successfully put their clothes back on.
Still photo of domestic Lingling lacquer
She was so eager for love that she knew that her mother had pushed her to this road, but she kept giving money and buying property. She ignored her embezzlement of her own property in order to exchange for a little bit of maternal love.
However, the three-tier film market is shrinking, and the property is almost taken out, and it is in short supply day by day.
At this time, she met the rich Huang Renzhong.
(photo) Hong Kong media report
Great wealth. In addition to the massive enterprises under his name, he made a huge profit of 5.6 billion in 11 years of stock speculation.
Ugly. Li Ao is one of the three ugly men who are taunted by Li Ao.
In Huang Renzhongs beauty album, Chen Baolian is the most thoughtful.
He called himself Godfather and dry daughter. He spent a lot of money and put in new plays. He even used a helicopter to pick her up for dinner.
This level of attentive concern is a deadly poison to Chen Baolian, who is badly in love.
The relationship between Huang Ren and Chen Baolian in Hong Kong media
However, the pleasure of a beauty hunter is never in gorgeous, but in the process of hunting. Once a successful capture is made, it is not far from the end.
When the prey moves the truth, it is the moment when the hunter begins to retreat.
Huang Renzhong changed, from perfunctory to apathy, and finally disappeared behind closed doors.
Out of control Chen Baolians self mutilation threat: drug abuse, drug contamination, beating fans, setting fire to things, making a big airport noise
Try to keep love in the most childish and hurtful way. The crazier you are, the more futile it will be.
Chen Baolian, who was pregnant, was obviously abnormal in mental state. At the age of 29, she gave birth to a baby boy named Huang Yi.
On July 31, 2002, before the moon was full, Chen Baolian left a suicide note at her residence in Shanghai and jumped off the 24th floor.
She made herself a broken poppy.
Qiu Ligan, Wang Feis former agent, adopted Huang Yi. When she was 10 years old, she took her surname Qiu. Over the years, she also provided financial support.
But is the black hole in the boys heart so easy to fill?
But almost everyone has to face the conflict, break away and reconciliation with the original family.
Satya, a master of family therapy, believes that a person and his original family are inextricably linked, which may affect his life.
It is probably the originator of the word original family.
A lot of people who are unhappy suddenly have a sound excuse.
The top of the pot cover said: any amplification details, 100% of the original family are not perfect.
Elegant as Dong Qing, 40 years old mentioned his fathers sternness in the program, but he couldnt help but burst into tears.
+ Dong Qing talks about his fathers stern picture on CCTV-1 challenge impossible
When she was a girl, she ran for thousands of kilometers every morning, recited poems and articles, and was not allowed to look in the mirror or make new clothes. Almost all of a girls small sentiments were small, but fortunately, she was lazy. All of them were killed completely.
Im like a hamster on a wheel. Im always busy meeting my fathers decisions, and I cant meet my fathers expectations, she said.
If later, she could not break away from her resentment and reach a reconciliation with her father, she would not be mature today.
On Dong Qings sea of life press conference
There is a real story in the psychology book the body never forgets.
On the morning of September 11, 2001, five-year-old Noam Saul saw a plane crash into the twin towers, less than 500 meters from hell.
NOM, like tens of thousands of people in downtown Manhattan, fled in the rubble and smoke.
Ten days later, an old man came to visit Noams home, a well-known psychobiologist named Roger Sperry.
Noam showed his grandfather a painting he had painted on September 12 - the clumsy lines showed a plane crashing into a building, a ball of fire, firemen in and out, and little black men jumping out of the window.
But there is a black circle at the foot of the tower.
The old man was surprised: after witnessing such a terrible disaster, a 5-year-old child could use an imaginary elastic life-saving net to achieve the most difficult healing and reconstruction after only 24 hours.
In every young persons mind, a bad native family is almost a disaster.
In blame you for being too beautiful, the female artist Lin Xiang falls into depression and gives up her life, which is also related to the poor original family
I can understand your pain.
However, there are so many people who have broken away or are struggling to break free.
The most familiar are su Mingyu and Fang Sijin in popular dramas, Cai Shaofen and Zhang Shaohan in reality
There is a mushroom law in psychology, which says that people are destined to experience different hardships and thorns in their growth, just like mushrooms that just emerge, and live close to the ground in dark corners, such as unhappy families, departments that are not valued, and errands when they are new to the workplace;
He is often splashed with dirty water, like groundless criticism, aggrieved back pot Nothing is easier than to live and die.
Its only when the mushrooms are tall enough to be seen that they have left the dirty, wet ground and have a straight posture.
Who hasnt had a few rolls in the mud? Those mushrooms that can stand up, in addition to IQ, EQ also have a kind of strength called counter attack.
There are also many people who have become Mao Xiaotong, breaking free from the suffocating shell and becoming a butterfly.
So smart you must understand, I am not repeating the gossip of female stars, I am feeling life.
Figure Mao Xiaotongs microblog
In Shisheng, tokono wrote a great Vernacular: its useless to be pessimistic. Everyone wants to be born in a good family, but they cant choose their parents. You can only play as well as you can.
Salted fish girl is easy to do, and girl after tomorrow is rare.
On, catch the fate of the king fried or rotten card, try to play it well.
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Zichen, a woman with a fragrant soul. Senior editor, media commentator, national second-class psychological consultant, original top 20 authors of the new list, in-depth study of Chinese womens emotion and social psychology.