The 28 year old girl had her nose and ears cut off by her husband, but she didnt dare to mention divorce

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 The 28 year old girl had her nose and ears cut off by her husband, but she didnt dare to mention divorce


In 2010, on the cover of time magazine, a picture of a beautiful girl whose nose was cut off by her husband shocked the world. Her name was Bibi Asha, and she was only 19 at the time.

The cut nose Zarka / tuyuan: Network

Zarka / source: Network

Im used to him hitting me,

But I didnt know he would cut off my nose.

Zarka and her husband both come from a very poor village in Afghanistan and are under Taliban control all year round. Her husband, a few years older than her, lives on cattle. In her daily life, her husband is a very violent person who will beat her from the very beginning of marriage. Ten years later, the cruelty of her husband has intensified. Finally one day, Zarka couldnt stand the beating and fled back to her parents home. But after a few days at her parents home, she was picked up by her husband and promised never to beat her again.

Back home, the husband put away his smile, took out a knife and threatened: if you run away again, I will kill you. Zarka was so scared that she took advantage of her husbands carelessness and hid in the neighbors house. After being found by her husband, she took her home by force. He took me home, took out a knife and cut off my nose. I fainted from the pain, and he left me in a pool of blood.

After Zarka operation with cut nose / photo source: Network

Her neighbors heard Zarkas scream, took her from a pool of blood to a local hospital and picked up her nose on the ground. However, the local medical level is very limited. She cant sew her nose back at all. In order to save her life, zakar has to go to the big hospital in the capital, Kabul.

But the village where Zar is stuck is still under the control of the Taliban, making it difficult for ordinary people to get in and out. Fortunately, with the efforts of all parties, zarqad went to Kabul.

When Zarka arrived in Kabul, the outbreak in Afghanistan was at a critical time. Zal, a novel coronavirus pneumonia doctor, recently recovered from his new wifes pneumonia with his wife. Zal quickly recovered, but his wife died just a few days ago.

At this time, Zarkas nose has developed a serious infection, requiring immediate surgery. Zalmai suppressed the pain of his wifes death and made an operation plan for Zarka.

Doctor, I want nothing but a nose. Zarka said cautiously. Shes only 28 years old, and she doesnt want to be an ugly monster without a nose.

Zarkar knows that it will cost the doctor a lot to keep his nose. To help Zarka, he posted her picture on social media and raised the cost of her operation. He also paid for Zarkas medicine.

Repair of the nose takes several steps, and Zarka underwent his last operation on July 21. Three hours later, Zarka was pushed out of the operating room. When she woke up, the doctor said to her, dont worry. The operation was successful. We have repaired the blood vessels in your nose and the nerves in your nose are working properly.

Zarka is an unfortunate girl, but she is very lucky. The doctor looked at Zarkas happy look and thought.

Zarka after initial operation / source: BBC

But now only basic procedures have been completed. It will take a long time and a high cost to return Zarka a beautiful nose. She cant afford it, and I cant help her. Said the doctor regretfully.

In Afghanistan,

Nearly 90% of women suffer from domestic violence

In prison, her husband threatened to retaliate against her after she was released from prison. Zarkas brother and father advised her to divorce her husband as soon as possible. But Zarka hesitated: after the divorce, will the son be awarded to him? Can I see my son again?

In Afghanistan, domestic violence is too common. According to the United Nations, 90% of women have experienced persistent domestic violence, disability and even death. Under the rule of the Taliban, if women cant stand domestic violence and flee, they will be sentenced to moral crime after being caught. Many women who live in dire straits can only commit suicide to end their suffering.

During the new outbreak, Afghanistan also implemented the home isolation policy, which made domestic violence more common. We used to be able to hide, but now they have nowhere to go. In a telephone interview, one victim said in despair. You cant imagine what a womans life is like in a poor and remote place.

Female victims show traces of domestic violence / source: Internet

In Afghanistan, violence against women by men is usually regarded as a just act to safeguard honor. Therefore, the victims will not get sympathy. Generally, women will choose to seek help only when their lives are really threatened.

Graphic source: Network

Hell and heaven are on earth

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When searching for information about Afghan women whose noses have been cut by their husbands, browsers will identify some keywords and pop up advertisements for plastic surgery, telling you how to get a perfect nose with a few knives. Seeing this kind of advertisement, I feel satirical first, then I feel desolate.

Living in the same world, there are some girls who endure the pain of cutting their noses with knives for better looks; and some girls, even if their noses are cut off, will stay with the murderer because they cant resist. Hell and heaven are in this world.

Although the international community attaches great importance to the social situation and personal safety of Afghan women, it can not fundamentally change their social status. In June alone, 754 cases of domestic violence were reported in Afghanistan. And this is only the case reported above, and there are countless women who endure the violence silently until their fate draws a tragic end point for them.

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