The 28 year old girl had her nose and ears cut off by her husband, but she didnt dare to mention divorce

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 The 28 year old girl had her nose and ears cut off by her husband, but she didnt dare to mention divorce


In 2010, on the cover of time magazine, a picture of a beautiful girl whose nose was cut off by her husband shocked the world. Her name was Bibi Asha, and she was only 19 at the time.

Ashas husband is a member of the Taliban, because she cant stand her husbands beating, she escaped from her home. After being caught by her husband, she was taken to the wild mountains by her husband and several other men, and her nose and ears were cut off.

The cut nose Zarka / tuyuan: Network

Novel coronavirus pneumonia was just encountered when she was cut off by her husband. Her operation was also delayed for several months. A few days ago, Zarkas nose was finally repaired. Taking off the gauze, she held a small mirror and looked at her nose repeatedly after surgery. Although still covered with the operation line and thick blood scab, she still couldnt help her happiness: great, I finally have a nose, Im so satisfied.

But I didnt know he would cut off my nose.

Zarka and her husband both come from a very poor village in Afghanistan and are under Taliban control all year round. Her husband, a few years older than her, lives on cattle. In her daily life, her husband is a very violent person who will beat her from the very beginning of marriage. Ten years later, the cruelty of her husband has intensified. Finally one day, Zarka couldnt stand the beating and fled back to her parents home. But after a few days at her parents home, she was picked up by her husband and promised never to beat her again.

Back home, the husband put away his smile, took out a knife and threatened: if you run away again, I will kill you. Zarka was so scared that she took advantage of her husbands carelessness and hid in the neighbors house. After being found by her husband, she took her home by force. He took me home, took out a knife and cut off my nose. I fainted from the pain, and he left me in a pool of blood.

After Zarka operation with cut nose / photo source: Network

I cant feel the pain at the moment when my nose is cut off. I feel like cold water is pouring into my nose. I looked down and found that I couldnt see my nose at all, and the blood kept gushing out. I fainted with pain Zarka still remembers the moment her nose was cut off.

Doctor and Zarka / tuyuan: Internet

At this time, Zarkas nose has developed a serious infection, requiring immediate surgery. Zalmai suppressed the pain of his wifes death and made an operation plan for Zarka.

Zarka is an unfortunate girl, but she is very lucky. The doctor looked at Zarkas happy look and thought.

Zarka after initial operation / source: BBC

But now only basic procedures have been completed. It will take a long time and a high cost to return Zarka a beautiful nose. She cant afford it, and I cant help her. Said the doctor regretfully.

In Afghanistan,

Nearly 90% of women suffer from domestic violence

Zarka has a six-year-old son. After she had her nose cut off, her husband was arrested and her 6-year-old son was fostered at her grandparents home. Not seeing his son for months, Zarka missed him.

Countless women have their noses cut off by their husbands in Afghanistan / source: the Internet

During the new outbreak, Afghanistan also implemented the home isolation policy, which made domestic violence more common. We used to be able to hide, but now they have nowhere to go. In a telephone interview, one victim said in despair. You cant imagine what a womans life is like in a poor and remote place.

In Afghanistan, if a man wants to divorce his wife, he only needs to say that the other party behaves improperly or behaves badly at home. However, if a woman wants to file a divorce lawsuit, she can only obtain permission for divorce proceedings by proving that her husband has indeed committed extreme violence, physical disability or sexual incompetence.

Female victims show traces of domestic violence / source: Internet

There are many women who refuse to divorce even after being raped to death because nearly 80% of Afghan women have not received formal education. They will not be able to support themselves after divorce and will be forced to separate from their children.

After the fall of the Taliban, the status of women in Afghanistan has been greatly improved, and women have the right to receive education, but the social discrimination and prejudice against women have not changed.

In Afghanistan, violence against women by men is usually regarded as a just act to safeguard honor. Therefore, the victims will not get sympathy. Generally, women will choose to seek help only when their lives are really threatened.

Graphic source: Network

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Living in the same world, there are some girls who endure the pain of cutting their noses with knives for better looks; and some girls, even if their noses are cut off, will stay with the murderer because they cant resist. Hell and heaven are in this world.