If two people are always alienated and perfunctory, and you are not willing to take the initiative to get close to each others world, then your relationship is likely to get into a bottleneck or dilemma.
Generally speaking, if a woman wants to enter a mans heart, she needs to do these things well.
1. How to praise men
Women should be good at discovering and excavating the shining points of men, and praise men in time. If you lack the necessary appreciation and recognition of a man, you always belittle him everywhere. If you ignore the significance and value of his existence, a man may feel inferior and he will not be able to lift his head in front of you. Over time, he may want to get rid of you.
If you completely ignore the sincerity and efforts of a man for you, no matter how good his performance is, you will be indifferent to it, and even suppress his enthusiasm and self-confidence everywhere. If you always speak ill of him, then no matter how much a man loves you, he may be discouraged, and he will slowly withdraw from your life circle.
So, if you want to catch a mans heart, you might as well praise the man. Praise him every day, maybe you will get more love and respect from men.
2. Learn to show weakness appropriately
Women can be strong in life or work, but it is best to keep the necessary tenderness and affection in the feelings. If you want to go into a mans heart, you should not be too strong or overbearing in front of him.
Women who are too strong will make men afraid of difficulties. If you are aggressive to a man, you never listen to his explanation carefully, and you are not willing to communicate with him, then the man will naturally be farther and farther away from you.
No matter how much a man loves you, he also needs your approval. He will want to be the pride in your heart. If you are too unreasonable to him, you are not willing to take the initiative to communicate and discuss with him in everything. You are always good at asserting. A man may feel that you do not need him at all. He will not find a sense of existence and belonging in this relationship.
It is not a shame for women to show weakness to men. You can talk to him openly, you can also work with him to resolve all kinds of contradictions in the relationship, but you should pay attention to the way.
Dont be too rude and strong in your attitude towards feelings. If you have any problems, you can sit down and discuss them.
As the saying goes, do not do to others what you do not want. You dont put forward too strict requirements and standards to a man, and you dont put all the things you dont like to do to him.
If you always force a man to do something that he is not interested in, after a long time, you will not enter his heart, but you may lose him completely.
3. Learn to keep a distance
Women should remember that no matter how much a man loves you, he is eager to have relatively independent space and distance. If you stick to him all the time, he may feel suffocated.
As the saying goes, distance produces beauty. Proper distance, on the contrary, is easy to enhance the feelings between each other.
If you are too close to a man, no matter what you want to intervene in, you over intervene or interfere in a mans life, then the man will feel that he has lost the minimum freedom with you, and he cant help but want to escape from you.
When you want to enter a mans heart, you should learn to keep a proper distance from him. On the one hand, you should not be too close to him, do not create a sense of pressure on him. On the other hand, you should not be too far away from him to make him feel that you dont value him at all.
Sometimes, you may as well deliberately alienate or cool him down, let him fully realize your importance.
When you notice that a mans attitude towards you is somewhat perfunctory, he no longer takes the initiative to you, and he even gets bored with you. At this time, you should stop pestering him, but learn to keep a proper distance from him.
Only when a man realizes that he cant leave you, his life cant be without you. After losing you, his life becomes a mess, and he will know how to cherish you.
In short, if a woman wants to enter a mans heart, you need to pay a lot of time, energy and emotion.
Feelings can be cultivated slowly, and the premise is that they are worth your heart. If the man you love doesnt love you, no matter how much you love him or how good he is, you should not continue to love him foolishly.
If you are gentle and considerate enough to a man, then he will naturally be unable to help but take a different look at you.
If you are bossy and unreasonable to a man, he will not be close to you, but will be far away from you.
If you want to hold a mans heart, you have to master the way to get along with him. On the one hand, you should not be too domineering or domineering with him. On the other hand, dont be too tame to him. You dont have to over indulge some of his bad habits.
When a man can see your unique flash point, you can also collide with him a lot of sparks, you can really understand his good intentions, you can really go into his heart.
Emotion is something that needs to be managed with heart. If you are not willing to pay sincerity and enthusiasm for this relationship, and your attitude towards a man is too indifferent or alienated, then no matter how much a man loves you, he may gradually alienate you.
The true love is that you can support and rely on each other when you are together. When a man is in trouble, if you can help him, he may look at you with a new look and love you.
Only the feelings of mutual affection and equal strength can reach the end. If you want to firmly grasp a mans heart, you must continue to improve your core competitiveness, making yourself irreplaceable.