Does childhood shadow really follow the whole life? The formation of human character and value orientation mainly comes from our childhood experience (0-12 years old). Therefore, according to the theory of childhood determinism, the shadow of childhood will follow ones whole life. However, it is not a key or a bad thing for a person to have a childhood shadow. As a social person, his childhood inevitably has a shadow. The key is, what impact does that shadow have on your life? We know that adversity is reborn and inferiority creates achievement. Therefore, any trauma or complex is a double-edged sword. We have no choice about childhood experience, and we cant erase our memory, but we can choose whether to take the shadow of the past as the memory reason of sadness and indignation all the time. If you have the shadow of childhood, you can reflect on this question: what will shadow be and will become in your present and future life? Is it a devil to torment you or an angel to save you? Will you continue to suppress your persecutors, or will you inspire the creator? In fact, many problems can go back to a starting point, that is, you are the director of your life role. Sensitive person is easy to think more, live very heart tired how to do? Sensitivity is a good trait in personality, only sensitive and suspicious personality, also known as hypersensitivity, will live very tired. Over sensitivity is a persons personality weakness, which is caused by unsafe parenting relationship in childhood. Therefore, to live free and easy, it is essential to improve ones personality. As for how to improve, you can use psychological counseling to deeply understand and understand yourself, or through self analysis, you can slowly cultivate your interests and goals that you care about and rely on in your life, and accumulate a sense of achievement. Only when you are more abundant in yourself, you wont care too much about other peoples opinions. Always do not want to be the same as others is what psychology? Naturally, it is a desire to be different, transcendent and independent. The basis of this psychology is that everyone has the nature of seeking freshness, stimulation and independence.
How to establish independent personality? The establishment of personality begins in infancy, and the critical period of formation and development is in childhood. Therefore, this problem should be directed at the caregiver. If the caregiver is not so doting and imposing his own will on the child in his infancy and adolescence, but knows how to let go and trust him, such as giving the child the interaction of independent thinking, letting the child choose and complete on his own, and guiding the child to deal with conflict matters by himself, and so on Will establish an independent personality. Im too lazy. I feel that my life is almost over! What should I do?
Man is a very strange species. Sometimes, knowing that there are tigers in the mountain and leaning towards the tiger mountain, or feeling at the edge of the cliff, they just dont turn around. If you know that its not good to be too lazy, and you persist in being lazy, it means that you are not completely lazy. Maybe its your desire to destroy. Then let yourself experience the end of it. The feeling after experiencing may tell you what you want and what you should do next.