Although Gu Jia is just a housewife, she can accurately find two key points in her life role from the overall situation of the family: 1. Educate her son so that he can receive a good education from Zui. 2. Stable and strong family financial resources, support husbands career.
In order to enable her son Xu Ziyan to attend the kindergarten she expected, Gu Jia found out that Mrs. Wangs husband, who lived on the top floor of her family, was the director of the kindergarten. He could help recommend his son to the kindergarten.
Later, Muzis mother took advantage of her childs birthday party and, without informing Gu Jia, received Xu Ziyan into her own home, deliberately isolated him and locked him in a small black room.
At this time, Gu Jia did not continue to choose forbearance. In particular, when she appeared at the door of Muzi and heard her son crying and crying when he was alone in the room, all the energy in her body suddenly burst out.
Then, a particularly wonderful scene appeared. Gu Jia said to her son in a calm voice. After waiting for her mother, she rushed in again in a spirit that made everyone at the scene confused. She pushed and pushed Muzis mother and the other mother who was making noises nearby into the room.
The moment the door was closed, there was a cry for mercy again and again in the room. At the moment when the room opened, Gu Jiamu came out of the room with no expression and composure, leaving two women lying on the ground, all in a mess, with blood stains and panda eyes on their faces. At the same time, they were pitiful and ridiculous.
Blue thinks that this is Gu Jias special excellence. As a full-time mother, she not only has a strong ruthless force, but also can bend and stretch, can retreat and advance, and solve problems intelligently!
I have to say, such a woman is one of thousands! They can handle affairs and are not afraid of them, but they do not cause trouble. In this, the same is reflected in a womans ability, ruthlessness and pattern!
In particular, when Gu Jia got to know Mrs. Yu through Mrs. Wangs rich circle and learned that Mrs. Yus husband was expected to become a big client of her husbands career, her brain and Su 600 were quickly mobilized.
However, such a limited amount of money for Gu Jia, who was hard to pay his employees at that time, was not a small number. However, Gu Jia still bought the bag by brushing xyk, and became a regular rich circle.
Although I dont agree with the comparison of life adventure and vanity, a persons strong heart and true ~ positive accomplishment, and even the position of life they can stand on, are often reflected in the pattern and wisdom of dealing with crisis.
No doubt, as a full-time wife, Gu Jia has made a perfect interpretation of this. In addition, Zui has given a vivid and wonderful lesson to countless female compatriots who are working as full-time wives and are about to be full-time wives.
However, in real life, women like Gu Jia are rare after all, and can not be imitated by any woman.
Therefore, I have always stressed that the full-time wife in modern society is not only a simple family role, but also a high-risk industry with high requirements for comprehensive quality and high risk coefficient.
Although full-time wives are at home, their living conditions and problems to be solved are often more complicated and cruel than those in the workplace. Although they are bloodless, they need to accept greater challenges in terms of body and mind, time, ability and comprehensive quality. If you are not careful, you will have a negative effect that is difficult to repair.
In fact, from the cases I have seen, women who have been full-time wives will have different degrees of psychological anxiety in two to three years. At the same time, in three to five years later, it deviated from the society, and then produced greater psychological panic. Even after six to eight years, there were psychological disorders, and Zui was still unable to get positive recognition from her husband and family members.
Therefore, being a full-time wife is not as simple as you think, and it is not the rear area for some women to pursue second place and enjoy themselves. It is a special test of comprehensive strength, a special need for wisdom and hard-working spirit, easy to make mistakes, especially prone to anxiety, and particularly easy to be thankless.
Therefore, a woman must have sufficient mental preparation before going home to be a full-time wife. We should not only have expectations of the difficulties in the future, but also have an accurate, comprehensive and profound understanding of our own ability, ruthlessness, pattern and comprehensive quality. We should never go home to be a full-time wife just by a few sweet words from a man and his three minute enthusiasm.