Ex husband of the murdered woman: the eldest daughter is willing to raise the younger daughter, but she also needs to discuss with her family

 Ex husband of the murdered woman: the eldest daughter is willing to raise the younger daughter, but she also needs to discuss with her family

The Hangzhou womens missing case in which the whole people participated in reasoning has finally come to an end. The result is not unexpected, but it is still creepy - the missing woman Lai Huili has died, and her husband Xu Guoli is suspected of committing a major crime.

In the morning of May, she was dissatisfied with her wifes death in a septic tank in Hangzhou, where she was dissatisfied with the news of her familys life. On the 23rd, the police summoned Xu Guoli on suspicion of intentional homicide.

But no one thought that such a bad case would become a new stem in a part of the population.

In a funny short video reflecting the daily life of husband and wife, the comment area is full of shocking threats: your husbands meat grinder is about to order, two water warnings, septic tank to learn about It seems that Xu Guolis arrest is not the final outcome, but the real victory is to control women by means of personal security threats.

And the gushing out of these remarks may be more terrible than the murder and dismemberment cases.

The most terrible murder

It was at the hands of a loved one

From the exposure of the case to the detection of the case, there has always been a voice: its always the husband.

No wonder, from the beginning, the case was full of doubts. The husband claimed that his wife went to sleep with him that night, and that he was not seen when he got up at 5:30 in the morning. Mobile phones, wallets, bank cards are all at home, clothes are only a sling pajamas. The two days of heavy rain in Hangzhou, but not a few umbrellas at home.

Such behavior can hardly be explained by normal logic. But Ms. Lai was obviously in a normal state of mind. The next day after her disappearance, she also received drugs for insomnia online.

In the densely monitored community, professionals can hardly find a way to avoid all the monitoring, but they cant avoid being photographed. Even so, there is still no trace of the lady.

What is more frightening is the husbands extremely calm performance.

In front of the camera, he said, I woke up at 5:30, and I didnt care at that time. its normal After the disappearance, he speculated that she must not be alone. She cant go out alone, according to her intelligence quotient; more than ten days after her wifes disappearance, she can go to relatives house to pick up her daughters book as if nothing happened. He even issued a puzzled speech: if you cant find it, dont look for it. If you go out for a few days, you may come back.

In order to solve the case, the police made great efforts.

Four times of carpet type inspection of more than 10000 square meters underground garage, as well as all elevator wells, water tanks, inspection wells, lockers, flue, ventilation ducts. A total of 1075 residents of 379 families in six buildings were interviewed, and even the refrigerators were opened.

After completely ruling out the possibility of Ms. Lai leaving the community, the police began to extract the septic tank. Under the high temperature of nearly 40 degrees, the police dressed in fully enclosed isolation clothing, washed and screened the filth of 38 vehicles. The whole process lasted for 25 hours, and finally found the body tissue of the lady Lai.

Xu Guoli, the initiator of the crime, even looked over his head calmly the day before his arrest when he passed a manure truck. His expression was not flustered.

However, the Hangzhou case is only a prelude. It has exposed the threat and lingering fear around women, and further ignited the malice from the patriarchal society.

A joke in your mouth

Its about her life and death

The occurrence of this case, no doubt to womens unfriendly marriage environment even worse.

The love in the eyes of outsiders and the affection they have known for many years can not be used as the guarantee of the other partys conduct. In the face of interests, human life is not worth a cent. In the face of extreme malignant events, people with empathy should feel cold. No wonder more girls are afraid of marriage.

It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Womens fear of marriage may not really decide not to marry, but rather to express their uneasiness about the status quo. But strangely, some male netizens splashed dirty water on the victim and denied the possibility of her husbands killing before the case was solved. The output intensity is so strong that they can scold dissidents to cancel their accounts.

To raise reasonable doubts and conjectures is to be accused of imputing to men. Who is provoking Gender Antagonism?

After the case was solved, the group began to intimidate the female carnival.

Photo / microblog @ Chen fold

Some people made fun of his girlfriends wife and issued a warning of eating Babau2014u2014

Under such remarks, there are people washing the ground, saying that everything should not be persuaded and its just a joke between lovers.

Some people even seriously discussed the feasibility of dismembering after a dispute with their partner, chatting in the circle of friends for several screensu2014u2014

Why do girlfriends need prevention? Why is the way to defend a person is to study the technique of dismemberment?

And their Sima Zhaos heart, just a popular science micro blog can be exposedu2014u2014

Whats more sad is that some married women thank their husbands for not killing in the comment area, and the scene is very strange.

Our requirements for marriage have been reduced from not to love to to be able to make do with it. But if you take personal safety as the bottom line of marriage, how can you give women the courage to engage in marriage?

They dont know that every vicious event in an intimate relationship is a fatal blow to every woman. As long as someone is interested in themselves, it is easy for women to become victims. If the person next to the pillow is a potential murderer, who else can be trusted?

However, those who are unable or unwilling to empathize with women not only play the septic tank joke, but also attempt to wipe out womens worries with a light dont create gender antagonism?

There will only be another nameless corpse in the world

Because they know that the detection of such cases is very difficult. The extra efforts made by the Hangzhou police this time is a clear proof.

Whats more shocking is that after the case, a Weibo big V mentioned that his mother had disappeared for no reason many years ago, which led to thousands of similar stories. Between the lines, there are tears of blood so it is..

Its always the husband is a terrible prophecy that is universally true.

Many people think of the murder of the wood crusher in Kangzhou. After a severe snowstorm in 1986, flight attendant Helle went out and mysteriously disappeared. The police investigation failed, and her husband Richard passed the lie detector test three times and cleared the suspect.

When the case was difficult to advance, it was the Chinese American detective Li Changyu who found a breakthrough. In the end, police pulled out some of the bodies that had been smashed by wood cutters in the frozen lake. Whats more, police investigation found that Richards two former wives were also missing after missing.

23 years ago, Wang Xiaoling, a woman in Datong, Shanxi Province, mysteriously disappeared. Before that, she divorced her husband of two years and returned to her mothers home to work. One day, she suddenly asked her partner to come home and said that she was fighting with other girls in hospital and asked her mother to come to the hospital to take care of her. My mother was busy with farm work and couldnt get away for a moment. When she thought about it, there was no news from her daughter.

The family becomes the place where women are most likely to be victimized is not alarmist.

The United Nations agency on drugs and crime (UNODC) has long had available survey data. In 2017, 87000 women died worldwide, 58% of whom died at the hands of close partners or family members. If its an average day, the number of women who die is 137. On average, its six per hour.

According to the latest report of Sanlian Newsweek, Ms. Lai revealed to their mutual friend, Ms. Zhang, that she wanted a divorce because Xu Guoli would commit domestic violence against her and strangle her to death.. And Xu Guolis ex-wife has repeatedly mentioned to Ms. Zhang that Xu Guoli would beat and threaten herself in order to achieve the purpose of divorce.

Maybe fate, from the beginning, has written the ending.

In this discussion on the Hangzhou disappearance case, the most enlightening point of view is that women must have jobs and networks.

Douban netizen @ Xun pointed out that the case can be solved precisely because Ms Lais daughter and nephew have the financial, mental, decision-making and action power. They will offer a reward of 100000 yuan at the first time, coordinate the relevant departments to drain the river search, link media resources to expand the momentum, and do not let go of any chance to find relatives.

Most of the poisonous husbands who will report to the police when their wives are missing are questioned by their wives work units, relatives and friends, so they have to report to the police. In other words, having our own social work and establishing a good social relationship can exert certain psychological pressure on the perpetrator at the critical moment, promote the detection of the case, and even give the victim a ray of life.

Good and evil will be rewarded, but it is endless sorrow left to relatives. Mrs. Lais family is in dire need of psychotherapy, and we must begin to examine the intimate relationship we are in.

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