Love half a year to know male ticket has a 4-year-old child, not willing to break up how should I do?

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 Love half a year to know male ticket has a 4-year-old child, not willing to break up how should I do?


Thank you for writing down your valuable suggestions on todays emotional problems.

Brother, my question is very simple and confused.

Very funny and heartache, want to share, but I really like him.

Reply:

Everyone must have a certain bottom line standard for love, especially for the other half who is running for marriage.

It took half a year to find out that your boyfriend has a 4-year-old. In fact, this may not be the biggest problem between you.

First of all, he conceals from you, right and right as he really loves you, but he is afraid that you will mind at the beginning and dare not say so.

At the end of the day, of course, its a bit disappointing and outrageous.

But I think you dont really mind this question. The only thing that matters is that he didnt disclose it in advance.

Otherwise, you will not be very reluctant and hesitant to ask me what to do.

So, what we need to understand now is that the child was born to another woman under unmarried conditions, and then broke up, and he came to raise him.

Or he is married, and then whether he has been divorced, if not, this kind of person is determined not to give him a chance, not even a chance.

If he is divorced, but the child is raised by him, then if you really cant let go,

Can also persuade themselves to accept the child, after all, the child is innocent, that can give him a chance.

And before you change your mind and give him a chance, you should first measure whether he is sincere in admitting his mistakes after you know about it.

At the same time, I think you should also be able to roughly understand what kind of person he is and whether he is worth your forgiveness or not.

Finally, be rational and communicate with him to see what he plans for this matter and your future.

Its better to leave this person, hide for so long, but did not show his sincerity and treasure to you after exposure.

It shows that this person has no responsibility. After all, he should have known from the moment he was with you that it is impossible to hide a child for a lifetime.

Now found out, but can not take the attitude that dare to cheat, dare to bear the consequences, can only say that you are not so important to him.

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