But if its your nature, please believe that you cant change it for a lifetime.
Mingyi sorted out the letters and found that many female friends confided in such a problem: no matter how hard they tried, they could not change some habits of the man.
Like laziness. Even if you pursue education behind you every day, you will still be the same.
Like selfishness. Even if you pay all sincerity, his eyes are still only yourself.
All this, the woman finally frustrated, can not help but ask: Transformation of a man, why so difficult?
If you fall in love with him, you want him to become the person you love.
Marry him, more hope that he can go in the direction he wants.
However, more hope, more disappointment, often difficult.
So women will question: whether, love the wrong person? Marry the wrong person? Is it not worth it? Is it necessary to continue?
Mingyi believes that even though men and women have gone through 5000 years, they still dont know each other. Social development has expanded our wisdom, but also opened up our repeated and unchangeable nature.
Especially for men, there are three natures that women cant change in their life.
(Ming Yi Yuedu dividing line)
The most difficult nature for a man to change is flower.
Dont believe that he only love you in this life, thats just drunk words when there is no one to see in his eyes. When he gets tired one day, a woman worse than you can become a good product in his eyes.
There is another nature hidden in men, which is selfishness.
Everyone is selfish, women are selfish in the mouth, men are selfish in the heart, even if you can not see, but in his heart, family and relatives, always the first, you are just the mother of the child.
A mans nature that cant be changed all his life is bragging.
He always touts Wu Dalang as XiMenqing. After a long period of blind self-confidence, he becomes a boaster. Although women know that men have this problem, they dont know that boasting is a problem that men cant change all their lives.
Mens three natures, womens life can not change, then, have you met?