What kind of psychological mechanism can keep the vague memory clear?
In fact, the same sex, every time and every time the feeling is not the same.
In a sexual love, the more intense the emotional experience involved in it, the more unforgettable it will be.
Its also because sex can change our hearts.
The sex that inspired me
Shared by: Han Yu
In retrospect, there has never been a time in my life where I could have enjoyed sex with Sasha as crazily as I did when I first got married, not out of the novelty of the new marriage, but because of the need.
One day when she came home from work, there were two pieces of mens clothes on the bed. When she changed clothes, Sasha rubbed over and said, honey, try it and buy it for you!
I dont need it, I said with a straight face Sasha didnt respond for a moment, and continued to persuade me: the discount is not a luxury, you can try it!
I just cant bear to see Sashas aggrieved appearance, and suddenly became angry: did I say I want clothes? My family just bought a house, so many loans have you thought about it? Dont you feel miserable without spending money?
The last word, I said heavy, Sasha froze for 3 seconds, and then quickly returned to calm. Her emotional intelligence has always been high. For example, now, her calmness makes me feel guilty.
I tried to adjust my mood, stepped forward and slowly hugged Sasha. Sasha immediately hugged me and relaxed her stiff shoulder the second before.
On my chest, Sashas short hair tickled me. I carried her directly to bed
After that, Sasha was still reluctant to leave. She breathed like a naughty child behind my back. My heart itched so much that I got up to respond to her: what a fighter!
Between us, it seems that there is no need for any language.
When I left her body, all negative emotions, such as helplessness, grievance and guilt, disappeared, and I had energy again!
My marriage to Sasha is not blessed.
Sashas family conditions are superior, her parents do not accept her to marry a man with a history of marriage. But I love her and she loves me.
So she abandoned everything in her hometown of Hangzhou and went to Shanghai with me to start a business. Before I got to know Sasha, I felt like I was in need of everything. After I got to know Sasha, I suddenly felt very poor.
Its a kind of pain that you love her, but you cant keep her living standard.
Every progress in our career has her sweat.
When we encounter setbacks, we always think of sex, because at that time, we especially need each others temperature.
Every time I have sex in pain, I feel completely changed. Although everything in the future is uncertain, at least, we still have this moment and each other!
If a persons living standard can be measured by material, then what can sex be measured by? Time? Frequency?
It doesnt seem to be in tune. None of these factors can describe the wonderful experience a perfect sex brings us.
When you really feel the needs of your partner and treat this intimate relationship with love, you will unconsciously motivate yourself to do better.
The sex that made me restore trust
I always feel that my marriage is in the intimacy and loneliness, and it goes on and on.
Sometimes, standing at the right distance to look back on my marriage, I will feel very happy.
However, when you are in it, you often cant find a sense of existence.
Maybe its because two people are too familiar. A lot of times, I know what hes thinking. I can feel that he is lying to me. Although I dont know the reason, my husbands way of lying is obviously different.
Once I worked overtime and called my husband to ask for help. He faltered and said at home that I knew he was lying. Despite his work, he went home to check his post. He was not there.
That night, he couldnt help but try. After several rounds, he didnt even drop water.
Finally, I couldnt hold my breath and cried first. My husband panicked and explained, I lost the companys documents. Others helped me find them. I went out to pick them up temporarily.
It turned out that he just happened to be absent, not intentional deception. I heard his abnormal tone on the phone, just panic after losing the document.
Shyly, I thrust my head into my husbands arms, feeling sorry for my suspicions and worrying about the deterioration of the relationship between myself and my husband.
At the moment, I cry pear with rain, and take the initiative to embrace, he suddenly came to the spirit, the ability to push the boat along the river is really first-class.
In his fierce collision and gentle caress, I calmed down, and then suddenly rushed to the climax.
Just feel husband does not love oneself, a turn around, found the most real existence feeling in sexual love again, really call a tangle!
As usual, I would complain that he broke the bridge over the river.
Perhaps, his emotion is really very big, but in the most intimate contact, he is very sincere, never artificial.
He is willing to spare no effort to satisfy me, willing to redeem my hesitation when I need it most. Maybe, for him, I should not force too much.
Good sex is a catalyst that allows us to face our inner needs directly.
After the invention of language, human beings seem to have a gorgeous coat, but no one can ignore the most primitive power of sexual love, which can surpass language!
In the case of Linglong, sex is repairing the boundary of their intimate relationship and dissolving her doubts about the relationship, which brings the two closer physically and psychologically.
So, its unforgettable.
The sex that I learned to cherish
In this world, what I hate most is Mr. Sus indifferent expression when he is angry; what I like most is Mr. Sus sincere, romantic and childlike expression.
Yes, Mr. Su is an emotional person. He always says because he cares about you, he will lose his temper. But, cant you please control it a little bit?
In my impression, the most fierce quarrel was about buying a house. Mr. Su and I argued endlessly about whether to use the balance of the provident fund as a loan or as a down payment. He wanted to save interest and I wanted to get enough decoration expenses as soon as possible.
As a result, it was a good thing, but it aroused all our old and new hatred.
Seeing that Mr. Su kept turning over old accounts, I roared: good! I dont agree. How do you buy it?
Mr. Su did not show weakness, retorted: if you have the ability, dont live if you buy it!
Seeing that this was the rhythm of driving me away, I immediately became furious and slammed the door away.
Along the way, I cried as I walked, causing pedestrians to keep looking at me.
All I think of in my mind are the scenes of myself trying to save money for buying a house.
Who am I working so hard for? Why cant I be nice to myself?!
Thinking about this, I found myself hungry, and immediately ran into McDonalds, bought the latest set meal, plus the most classic snacks.
The stomach is full, the heart is not so empty, think of their own experience in the morning, also do not feel so sad. Think
I think Mr. Su is hungry at the moment. Besides gloating, he is moved with compassion. I bought the same set meal and took it back. I happened to meet Mr. Su at the door. He was planning to go out to buy food.
When he saw the takeout in my hand, he was moved by it. He took it without saying a word and ate it silently on the sofa.
When I went into the room to change clothes, I was really shocked by the pieces of clothes scattered on the bed. When I was away, Mr. Su actually cut my clothes to vent my anger!
I couldnt laugh or cry. I rushed out of the house to grab the hamburger in Mr. Sus hand.
He took two quick bites, then hugged me in his arms, dropped the hamburger, and assumed the appearance of I want to eat you now..
Im drunk, too. Its the first time Ive been up and down on a pile of clothes.
Towards the climax, Mr. Su called my name more than 20 times in a row, as if repeatedly confirming my existence, and then accompanied by a go to your bar! As a conclusion.
Finally, he sat on the edge of the bed with a bad smile on his face: you see, I said I have impulse control disorder! I cant control cutting clothes and making friends.
I didnt pay attention to him. I was in a mixed mood.
Strange to say, in the messy room, in the mood of ups and downs, I feel a rare impulse from the heart, which is a precious experience of lost and recovered.
It made me forget the quarrel and the rift in the relationship a few hours ago, it let me ignore the shock of seeing the clothes fragment, it made our relationship stronger and more complete.
Afterwards, we decided to set aside a part of the balance of the provident fund to buy me some new clothes!
Some sex with anger is unforgettable because after the excitement, some deeper emotions emerge.
In this unforgettable sex, the feeling of lost and recovered is so obvious because it helps people to dissolve some low-level emotions and induce high-level emotions.
Sex not only brings pleasure, but also strengthens peoples love in a pleasant atmosphere. Even anger can be easily solved when both husband and wife work together to improve.
At this time, sex is often used as a tool to integrate peoples body and mind.