TAs emotional experience is rich. Will he still love me with all his heart?

 TAs emotional experience is rich. Will he still love me with all his heart?

Its love field Xiaobai

Do you ever mind the other persons long love history

Without your participation?

We fall in love with one person, in fact, we fall in love with all his predecessors. What ta looks like now is the result of all the emotional experiences of the past.

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For example, when master Fei wrote the Great Gatsby, Zelda just went swimming on the beach and went to the ball. After meeting a man, he came back to divorce him - even the man himself did not know Zelda would divorce for him. Master Fei later concluded that the woman had a dramatic need, and she was the victim of her strange dream. Life is like a play. Shes really in the play. Later Zelda fell ill. He wrote semi autobiographical novels to make trouble with young Fei. He wanted to dance day and night, enter a mental hospital, force young Fei to be a drunkard, and finally die early, etc.

There are not many erotic plays in his works. Readers of his novels may notice that in the third party and the man in the corner of the rose, lust is the main cause of tragedy. At the end of Ulrika, there is an image of her body, but its meaning is vague. You can say that Borges pursues Dantes noble and spiritual erotic encounter with Alice, but he has to admit that his mothers influence is too great.


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Without Borges mother, perhaps Mr Borgess emotional experience would be more normal But his work, obviously, will not be what it is now.

According to Maugham, Stendhal had a lovers love for his mother who died early. Later, he went into the social circle and wanted to hook up with girls, but he couldnt express himself when he thought of good words. He was short and fat, so his love was not smooth. Maugham thought that he usually didnt hook up with girls for lust, but for vanity. For a long time, others guessed that he was frigid, until they found out that he wrote some gorgeous love letters to mistresses. If he is not a great novelist, he can easily be classified as an erotic and obscene man.

Flaubert fell in love with Mrs. Schlesinger at the age of 15. By the time Mr. Schlesinger died in 1871, Flaubert - 35 years after he first met Mrs. Schlesinger - had written her first love letter.

Tolstoys wife is a master of management, but she is possessive. Tolstoys fans often complain that Mrs. Tolstoy has controlled her husband so that he cant get comfortable. Balzac had a lot of mistresses who were tortured by separation and reunion. Tchaikovsky had a rich woman patron, but when the rich woman stopped patronizing him, he broke down.

Tolstoy and Mrs

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Most men will regret later. In the late 1920s, for example, Hemingway drifted between his first and second wives. He knew it was wrong, but he could not resist the temptation. Many years later, he would write about his own regret: after dating his second wife (who was a third party at that time), when he returned to his first wife, Hadley, he thought, I wish I had died before I fell in love with another woman.. This remorse is sincere, but not necessarily interesting.

People often have a misunderstanding: they always hope that their object is a piece of white paper, so that they can completely own it; even if there are some past, its better to be indifferent. This kind of thinking is ideal, but often overlooked: everyone, good or bad, is carved from the past experience. Everyones perseverance is tempered by previous painful experience. Time and experience make them what they are now. No one is born with his or her hands full, and when he or she is a child, he or she can always find the most innocent and chaotic moment. And they will eventually become what they are today, which is the taste of time - good and bad, are all gifts of time, and will continue to change in the flow of time.