She said, why, is there a natural contradiction between love and bride price? Where is it written that you cant love if you want a bride price? If you dont want a bride price, you must be true love?
u2014u2014Standard answer should not be all want!
The girl is unmarried and pregnant first. The man feels that raw rice is cooked and doesnt give the bride price intentionally. Finally, the girls mother carries her daughter to have an abortion.
When many people blame him, others leave a message:
This motherfucker is too ruthless. He doesnt care about his daughters health in order to ask for tens of thousands of yuan of bride price!
This mother is really greedy and stupid. After her daughter had a baby, she couldnt even sell it for a good price.
I dont know what the girl in this story will think, but if this is my daughter, I will solemnly tell her:
You are my daughter who I have worked hard to raise for more than 20 years. If you want to sell it, dont say that its 180000 yuan of bride price, that is to give me Jinshan and Yinshan. For me, its definitely a loss business.
Yes, every mother looks very stingy when she wants the bride price. She is not willing to give in.
How could this be something that a greedy person, a man skilled in calculation, would do?
Some people say that bride price is the source of all evils.
Nanpi, an old lady, chose to hang because she couldnt get her sons bride price.
I know. It all sounds terrible.
But, my dear daughter, I have another more important thing to tell youu2014u2014
Their misfortune is not your fault!
Their misfortune is not your fault!
Mother is always a selfish person in relation to her daughters lifelong happiness.
There is no such obligation in your life.
Mom has no great ambition, just hope you can find someone who loves you enough to live a carefree life.
As for the above suffering families, dont say they cant get the bride price. Even if they sell iron and smash pots to give the price of the bride price, my daughter cant marry.
The bride price does not lie in how much, the important thing is the two sides are willing.
There are only two situations for a man to haggle over a bride price:
The first, the most common, is not affordable.
Second, its affordable, but I dont want to.
When you are in love, you can have no money and feel very happy when you eat a roadside stall with more than 20 yuan.
You can accompany him to suffer and struggle. It doesnt matter for three or five years.
But when he got married, he was still empty handed, but he cried out, if you dont marry me, which was almost a kind of rascal.
Ive seen too many examples of loving and full of water before marriage and poor and humble husband and wife mourn for everything after marriage.
Marriage is not a family affair. In addition to firewood, rice, oil and salt, there are also worldly customs, medical education. Even if you can suffer, do you want to let children suffer together?
You need to prepare a small sum of money even for dinner, dating, travel and movie. Why can you set up a white wolf in your marriage?
A family without enough money is like a birds nest, which cant stand the wind and rain.
Mother will prepare your dowry. Why dont they prepare betrothal gifts?
When a man is in pain because he cant take out the bride price, you may feel that he is very aggrieved and heartache for him. Especially the one you love.
House, car and bride price are all provided by us. As long as he comes here to let your children follow your surname, he will not like it.
Therefore, you can imagine how many grievances and advantages the men who cry for the bride price have suffered in the besieged city of marriage.
Never be carried away by love.
Never forget to love yourself because you love someone.
Never over sympathize with others and forget your own situation.
When you get married, have your own children, after three years of confusion, you will find that the burden of marriage is very heavy, and the impulse of love alone is not enough.
So, dear daughter, I hope you can understand my mothers mind after reading this article.
Dont come to me with an empty handed son as an adult.