3. No longer believe in love. Lets put aside those boys who are dregs and green. Those boys who are not hurt may have witnessed the love, hate and hatred of people around them. They have also seen a lot of poisonous chicken soup on the Internet. They think that dregs are prevalent in the world, and girls are more realistic, so they just dont wait for girls to take the initiative. Maybe girls active love is more reliable.
4. No capital. Now many boys feel that they are far away from the requirements or standards of girls. They are not handsome, have no money, and can not chat. Therefore, when they meet girls who hide far away, even if they appreciate a girl very much, they will only look far. In addition, I cant chat, and I may be called straight man by girls. Why? Life is so hard, why should I find a ancestor for myself? Besides, the current salary, even their own are not live, to find a girlfriend that will not spend money? Whats more, how can such conditions give a future to the people you like? The cost of all these conditions limits the initiative of boys.
I dont know the above four points, right? Lets not talk about right and wrong. Lets talk about the current view of love: for love, we should be full of expectation, because love is a very good thing. Even if some feelings may make us tired, it may be that you are not in the right time and meet the right person. But I think you will meet her in your heart one day. You dont need to be rich and handsome, but you are willing to grow up together.