To know whether a man really loves you or not depends on whether he is reluctant to be separated from you, and whether he depends on you deeply enough.
The more men dont want to lose you, the more they will try to shorten and shorten the distance between you.
On the one hand, he wont put too much pressure on you. On the other hand, he will not cause you all kinds of troubles.
In fact, a man loves you or not, you know it. When a man really care about you, he will give you a warm feeling like spring, he will give you more tenderness and affection.
Generally speaking, the less a man wants to lose you, the more he will let you.
1. Personal interests
To judge whether a man really doesnt want to lose you depends on what kind of choice he will make in front of his interests.
If his personal interests conflict with yours, and he is willing to give up his personal interests for you, it means that he really likes you, and he doesnt want to lose you.
If a man is too selfish for you in his feelings, he only considers his interests in everything. He never cares about your feelings and mood, and he is not willing to protect your interests, then he doesnt love you and care about you so much.
The man who really doesnt want to lose you will give priority to your interests. Even at the expense of his personal interests, he will try to protect your personal interests.
When a man is willing to let you in terms of personal interests, he would rather suffer himself than let you suffer a little injustice, then it shows that he really does not want to lose you.
2. Money material
In a relationship, the less a man wants to lose you, the more money and material he will let you.
For example, he will take the initiative to hand over all the monthly income to you, and he will let you control all the money.
The more afraid he is of losing you, the more generous he will be to you. He will never owe or treat you in material life.
Because he doesnt want to lose you, he will try his best to make money, so that you can live a comfortable life as soon as possible.
When you have no money to spend, he will give you money to spend. No matter what difficulties you encounter in your life, he will try his best to help you out.
No matter how much money you spend on him, he wont care about you. He doesnt care about money and materials at all. He only cares about your life, whether you are happy or not. Such a man really doesnt want to lose you, and he really loves you.
If a man is reluctant to spend money for you all the time, and he is too harsh or stingy on you in terms of economic and material matters, nine out of ten means he doesnt love you enough, and he may leave you at any time.
3. Living habits
Everyone will have their own living habits. For example, you may be used to sleeping late and getting up late. He is used to going to bed early and getting up early. You like to eat spicy food, but he cant even touch any chili. You like to eat coriander. He cant stand the smell of it.
When a man is willing to change some of his life habits for you, it means that he really cares about you, and he doesnt want to lose you.
For example, he used to like staying at home, but he didnt like travelling very much. But because you like to travel, so he is willing to let you, he will accompany you to travel.
Women should remember that not all men are willing to make concessions and changes in their living habits for you, unless they really love you.
When you realize that a man lives with you, he will try to get closer to you in life habits. When you stay up late, he will stay up with you. When the food you like is the one he hates, he will not turn his face against you. Instead, he will let you, and even he will eat with you.
Only the men who really care about and love you deeply will try to keep their living habits and rhythm in line with you.
If a man doesnt love you at all, he is not afraid of losing you at all, then he will not let you in life habits. Once you cant adapt and accommodate his living habits, he may have left you long ago.
In a word, the less a man wants to lose you, the more tender and considerate he will be to you. He will let you in some ways, rather than being aggressive and fussy about you.
When a man is too serious to you in his feelings, he will not make any changes or concessions for you in any way, and he is always unreasonable to you, then in all likelihood, it means that he has let you go, and his heart is not in you for a long time.
If a man is too perfunctory to you, he says he loves you, but he never listens to your opinions and suggestions on some important choices, and he never gives you the initiative, it means that he doesnt care about you so much.
A man who doesnt want to lose you will want to get more recognition and appreciation from you.
In order to keep your heart, he will give you more tolerance and understanding. On the one hand, he will be particularly willing to accompany you to do what you are really interested in. On the other hand, he wont force you to do something you dont like at all.
In love, if a man is willing to give you 100% respect and trust, he will take care of your mood and feelings everywhere, he is full of care and love for you, then he has you in his heart.
When you realize that a man starts to alienate and neglect you gradually, he is too strong for you, and he likes to argue and win every time he quarrels with you. He not only refuses to give you proper tolerance and forbearance, but also criticizes you with all kinds of acerbity and progressiveness, which shows that his heart is too small, and he may not care about you so much.
When a man doesnt want to lose you, he will show infinite tenderness in his eyes even when he looks at you. He will give priority to handling and solving your problems, and he will fully respect and worry about your feelings and mood.
Only when a man is willing to give you enough forbearance, he will never care about you for trivial matters, and he will not calculate you everywhere, can you promise to associate with him.