When shangguantou wanted to explain on the spot, chongxuezhi didnt listen and went back to her heavy fire palace with muyuan. Later, I want to wait for shangguantou to explain, but shangguantou doesnt want to explain very much.
In other words, he has explained that he didnt do things. Chong Xuezhi should trust him. It is true that she should not be so arbitrary as not to listen to him when everyone accused him. After the event, there were other things delayed, and then there was no ice.
Before that, shangguantou did try to ease the relationship and make it as good as before, but every time Xuezhi was cold, which made him hard to force him to entangle.
At the same time, he also has the right to disappoint chongxuezhi, such as the idea that if you love me, you should trust me. At this point, Chong Xuezhi did not do well.
The two did not open their hearts, but there was a gap. Shangguantou didnt know how to go further. Chongxuezhi would only stay in the same place or retreat, so shangguantou would say calm to each other.
The latter doesnt like arguing and is afraid of trouble. Sometimes, in order to calm people down, they press things, or stop, or dont want to face her tears or blame, so they deliberately escape.
Its a kind of laziness. They think that when they let go of it, things will be over. The angry one will be relieved, forgive herself and accept herself.
In fact, if they dont get angry later, its just because theyre disappointed and feel bored. Theyre reluctant to take care of you. But emotionally, theyll be introverted, discount, trust and closeness will be reduced.
It should be the same with chongxuezhi. Later, those performances also have intentional elements. They want to wait for the superior officer to coax themselves, say some pleasant love words and give them promises.
But shangguantou doesnt seem to be in a state, or because of trifles, hes afraid to hear chongxuezhi say some hurtful words, so he means let go.
Chongxuezhis anger lasted so long. Its probably because he was not satisfied with the Shangguans expression of intercession. He just politely points to the end. If he is domineering, maybe she cant resist his apology.
In a word, its not reliable for women to calm down. In that way, they will be disappointed or even cold in waiting.
What they need is her determination to understand and forgive in any case, that is, the state of I really did nothing wrong, you must understand me, without your understanding, I cant live.
Unfortunately, many people dont like this way. They feel a bit sheepish. If they have a thin skin and are refused a few times by those who are asked for forgiveness, they will not have the courage to continue. They will feel that they have no face and cant continue.
As long as we still love each other, this method is actually feasible. So if two people quarrel, the woman is always angry, the man cant ignore it, cant say to wait for each other to calm down.
In that way, the women will always suffer in this angry process. What they need is not reason, but an apology or concession from him. They need him to coax her seriously.
At this time, if someone who loves her takes advantage of the situation, she may go with others with a kind of revenge mentality when she is disappointed by the current sadness and anger.