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Last night, I read Yishus the first half of my life again.
In fact, its an old story. Ive known it very well.
But sometimes I still feel concussion in my heart.
In the book, Tang Jing wrote a letter to Luo Zijun, in which he said that he was about to have a child, and said with emotion: life is undoubtedly an illusion, but as Xiangzi of Lao She said, it is impossible to be different. Im ready to see the children wandering around the room.
Tang Jing, who has been a single city girl for more than ten years, is determined to wash his hands and watch his children run everywhere in the second half of his life.
I used the first half of my life to get married and have children, while Tang Jing used his time to struggle and start a business, and then the second half of his life turned around to suit each other.
Once upon a time, watching the TV drama my first half of life, including watching the original work, all thought that this story is about Luo Zijuns first half of life, about a divorced womans great enlightenment and self-reliance: or on her own.
It turns out that in the novel, the first half of the life in which two women are exchanged is to mourn the fate of all women: no matter how to choose, in the end, we have to walk a thousand beaches, involving all kinds of risks. The difference is whether we should first go sweet and then go bitter, or first go bitter and then go sweet.
I think Yishu is pessimistic and wary about marriage, so she uses Luo Zijuns tragic experience after divorce to give those married women a piece of advice: dont think that they will go ashore once they get married, and there will be no more trouble.
Marriage has never been a haven.
Yishu, always only love themselves, also only believe in themselves.
She wrote the first half of my life in a very obscure way, but after reading it several times, she could feel Yishus preference for Tang Jing and her sympathy for Luo Zijun.
There is no role of he Han in the original book, and there is no drama of a good girl falling in love with the same man.
Tang Jing in the original works, like Tang Jing in the TV series, is an independent woman who works in a big city and stands firm on her own merits - smart, decisive, intelligent and excellent in taste.
The difference is that Tang Jingmian in the novel is not so hesitant about love, but also has a sense of boundary for friendship. He is a person who has a strong control over interpersonal relationships.
Tang Jing in the novel doesnt need everyones heartache. Everything goes according to her heart. She married her boyfriend who has been in love for many years, went to a place where there are few disputes and lived in a down-to-earth way. Her husband has a successful career and is also a gentleman.
Even Luo Zijun has to admit that Tang Jings life is much better than her.
Yishus admiration for Tang Jing is that he doesnt use the word luck to sum up her income.
Yishu borrows from Zhang Yunxin, a good friend of Luo Zijun in the book, and affirms Tang Jing. She says that Tang Jing has a good life, and she has control over life. She also says that Tang Jing has better conditions than many people.
Later, Luo Zijun and Tang Jing called and asked Tang Jing, does anyone think we are too lucky?.
Tang Jings answer is: I think their condition is extremely poor. The condition here refers to ability.
The ending that Yishu gave to Luo Zijun is still marriage, and the mans condition is very good.
But this ending, just seems happy, think about it, more is helpless and compromise.
When Luo Zijun plans to get married, he has two psychological monologues which are very sad.
One is: thirty-six year old women have no choice, marriage is still a better place.
Another sentence is:
No, its not happiness, its a sense of security. Im back to where I used to be. Everything can be regarded as never happened before. When I was a child, I wandered with adults in the market of new years Eve. When I was young, I suddenly lost touch with adults. I was confused and lost in color. But they finally claimed it and took it home. What happened in it is no longer important.
Its a terrible thing to get lost. If the venue is colorful, how can you stroll all your life. I dont care. I just have to go back to the dry land and live safely. I dont want to be demanding anymore. Happiness is too complicated.
Does Luo Zijun love the man who appears in her life and gets along with her for a short time?
No, not much love.
But Luo Zijun must catch him, because she does not believe that she can live well alone.
Her good friend Zhang Yunxin said: depravity is pleasant. Zijun, like a piece of rotten meat waiting for death, doesnt have to work hard. Zijun, are you trying to climb? Try it, Zijun. You are always lucky.
But Zhang was disappointed in the end.
Luo Zijun also gradually recognize themselves, she had a dream, found themselves in the dream, squatting in the corner, crying.
At that moment, she understood that she had not stood up and overcome all difficulties. The tragic wound left by the divorce was always deeply buried. She had no confidence that she could go through the next storm alone.
When someone reached out, she put on the handle. It used to be Tang Jing, but now its the man who married her.
In fact, Yishu satirizes Luo Zijuns sweet life and bitter life: people used to depend on others for too long, so they couldnt stand up again.
The original book my first half of life stays at Luo Zijuns wedding site:
This writing, trance reminds me of the ending of Zhang Ailings love in the city:
Its no wonder that other people want to follow her example. The fringe squats in the light to light mosquito repellent incense. Thinking of her fourth grandmother, she smiled.
Its true of the legendary people who are the most powerful.
The first half of my life is a bleak story, but Yishu cant bear to write it so clearly. Or, she knows better than anyone else: the story of divorce and remarriage is a kind of earthly perfection, which can make readers buy more books and write too bleak. Who has the heart to read it?
The TV play the first half of my life is just to spread this kind of vulgarity and perfection more thoroughly.
Author: Lin wanyang. Chic life, best-selling author, well-known future screenwriter. A girl who doesnt follow the same life, but lives more smartly than everyone else. Dont be pretentious. You cant handle it clearly. Like you dont follow blindly. For business cooperation, please contact wechat: qiuxiangjie0122.