This is true in any relationship. No matter how good the relationship is, it will die of course.
Take the parenting for granted;
Take the indulgence of lovers for granted;
Take the help of friends for granted
Gradually, the person who is willing to treat you sincerely is also naturally far away from you.
Do you remember the donation event of Sun Li?
So I decided to fund the child and go all the way to college.
After going to Haiqing University, Sun Li felt that he had the ability to work, so she stopped funding.
But to Haiqing not only do not appreciate Sun Lis help for so many years, but also bite Sun Li.
Sun Lis constant demands and black-and-white comments made her completely cold hearted.
Xiang Haiqing, because of his bad conduct, ran into a wall when he was looking for a job.
Every day I give you a candy. Suddenly one day I forget to give it to you, so you blame me.
But most of the time, Im not qualified to blameu2014u2014
Its these people who enjoy themselves and dont give each other a piece of sugar!
You know, there are always icing on the cake.
The one who treats you well, they could not have done it.
It was your ingratitude that ended up hurting both sides.
Always take the good of others for granted, do not know how to appreciate, will only continue to consume your goodness.
As the saying goes, you are not afraid of tigers and wolves sitting in front of you, but you are afraid of two knives in front of you.
When he was having lunch with his friends yesterday, he and I make complaints about it.
There is a colleague in the company who usually has a very good relationship with himself. They have worked together for a long time, and they cooperate very well with each other in their work.
But how also did not expect, this and oneself tacit person unexpectedly in the back everywhere informs, spreads the rumor.
It is said that a friend is lazy at work and all the heavy tasks are put on him.
Friends were also called to the office by the boss to talk.
Besides, the one who buckles the pot for you is the one you trust the most.
Whats more amazing is that:
The next day the other side seemed to change a face, as if nothing had happened, and friends talk and laugh.
But his friend became nothing because of his mouth, which was made up out of nothing.
When I thought of teaching him my work experience before, I felt that coolness permeated my heart.
We always meet people like this in our lifeu2014u2014
You treat people with kindness, but the other side with evil.
Let us really see what is, and the sun can not be as direct-looking people.
Some people, you dont fight back properly, but youre pushing ahead.
I can talk and laugh with you today, and I will stab you in the back tomorrow.
This kind of person is not worthy of deep acquaintance.
Birds choose good trees to live in, and people choose good friends to make friends.
Stop a bad relationship in time, it wont cause you more losses.
Always force people to be tolerant of others
You must have heard a lot in your life:
And so on, there are many more.
They often stand at the top of the disdain chain and kidnap others with their own moral will to satisfy their false sense of moral superiority.
I saw a piece of news before:
The girl was cheated to attend a program and asked to recognize her parents.
Just when everyone thought that the most touching link was coming, the girl refused to recognize her parents.
Because her parents abandoned her when she was very young.
And after so many years, I never said I would visit her.
But the host scolded her on the spot:
Dont be so narrow-minded! You should think in other places.
But I wonder:
These ten years of life, abandoned by their parents, is hard to heal.
Why dont you think about it?
If you dont know peoples suffering, dont persuade them to be generous; if you dont know peoples difficulties, dont talk about peoples right and wrong.
If you dont have empathy, dont say anything lofty to show your generosity.
We have been educated since childhood. We need to think in other places and be considerate of others.
But not everyone will be tolerant.
Freedom of speech is based on full understanding, not on opening your mouth as soon as you raise your head.
You need to stay away from him, because thunder may affect you when it strikes him.
Click looking. May we all stay away from the wicked in the future.
May everyone be treated with gentleness.
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