In addition to scolding my father, the chat content means that whose family makes money, whose daughter finds a rich husband, but all the happy people in her mouth, at last she tells me that the ending is fast imprisonment, bankruptcy and death.
So I now a primary bad mentality is to see the happy rich, the heart is very jealous, see will think how they havent bankrupted unlucky?
There is also a bad mentality is that when someone praises me, I will vigorously refute it to prove how miserable I am.
For example, if someone says, your husband is very good to you, I will try my best to prove to others that my husband is not good to me, and tell her all the ugly things about our family until she says that my husband is not good to me.
But lead to the family scandal exposed again and again, cause great trouble to my life and work, I am too painful, these two mindsets torture me crazy.
Cold love reply:
I feel very sorry to see your story.
It can be imagined that in such a state of mind, you are going to be tortured, crazy, anxious and desperate. You dont know how to get out, as if you are hitting walls everywhere.
I hope that todays sharing is not only for you, but also for all other people who want to stand up again in a desperate environment to light up some roads ahead for you.
I think there are two key words:
First key word, experience
What is experience?
I had this experience myself. Once, I cried all afternoon in a very sad state. When all my tears came out, I felt that all my emotions were released.
I felt that I accepted all this: yes, I am miserable, I am so miserable, I am suffering from this. But I accept, I believe I can change.
This experience is very important.
You dare not resist your mother, because your mother has too much negative energy, her chat content is that who makes money, who makes what, happy ending is not so good.
You are affected by her negative energy, and you project this hatred on those happy rich people. I hope that they will go bankrupt soon. Thats in line with what your mother said.
However, this hatred, this pain, is just what your mother passed on to you, you just need to let these negative energy, these emotions flow out.
For example, when your mother talks about these negative energies to you again, you directly say to her, no, Im bored when you talk about them to me. I dont want to go on like this. Im going to be tortured crazy..
When you say to her one day, no, I dont want to do this anymore, when your emotions flow out, as long as you have such an experience, this emotion, this repression, this template, this fate will not happen to you again, because you let it flow.
The second key word, relationship
Your pain is caused by your mothers relationship with you or your fathers relationship with you.
If one day you can break the situation and come out, it must be because of a new relationship.
All in all, you need a safe, reliable, trustworthy, and trustworthy relationship.
In such a relationship, you get love, learn to love, you can recover in such a relationship.
Questions come from relationships, and ultimately we can only find answers in relationships.
I hope that all people in adversity can see what the real problem is.
In fact, the real problem is not how jealous you are of the rich, or how miserable you are to prove yourself, but that you have not found the things that should be accepted or the people that should be resisted.
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