Can a man really forgive a woman for cheating? I interviewed 100 men

 Can a man really forgive a woman for cheating? I interviewed 100 men

Later, she also begged his forgiveness, saying that it was the man who took the initiative to seduce her.

So, can a man really forgive a woman for cheating?

This time, the deep studio interviewed 100 experienced men. Lets see what they saidu2014u2014


@Big gray wolf gnaws carrots 25 years old confidential coordinates Tianjin

Usually I treat her very well, everything depends on her, after all, she is also married to me.

I dont want to be told that she married the wrong person. I promised her parents that before I got married.

The moment I knew that she had cheated, I was confused.

You said that if I dont treat her well, I can understand her cheating.

But Im so good to her. I think of her first for any good things. I also try to make money to make our life better and better. Why does she do this to me?

Originally I thought that if she confessed her mistake and promised me never to do such a thing again, I would give her another chance.

But she said she seemed to fall in love with the man

I cant say the mood at that time. Its a bit awkward.

What can I do?

I want to forgive her, but her heart is no longer with me, so let her go!


I met her through a blind date.

I cant say Im particularly kind to her, because I really dont know how to make romance and surprise.

But I also have a clear conscience. I will prove it with practical actions.

A few months before we got married, we had a good life. I thought I was so lucky to have a good wife.

But reality gave me a slap in the face. She cheated on her ex boyfriend, who had hurt her ex boyfriend before.

Dont you think its funny? She would have hurt her before.

forgive? I want to, but I cant, and shes not worth it!

As soon as I think of her marrying me, I just want to go back and ask for the second time. She would rather have sex with her ex who hurt her than live a good life with me. I feel very sad.

I can get divorced if I dont love you, but I cant bear to go out and mess with my ex behind my back.

@Guanzhong great Xia, 33 years old, Hangzhou

With the seven-year itch of marriage, there are serious problems in our marriage.

I found out that she had been derailed in spirit for half a year.

I dont think this kind of thing will happen to me. I usually tease other men about wearing green hats. I didnt expect to wear them myself first.

She also said that it was an impulse to make such a mistake. She didnt really fall in love with the man, and nothing happened to them.

After thinking about it, I forgave it. Its for the family and the children.

But the life behind is much more difficult than I thought.

I became reluctant to touch her. Sometimes I would refuse her to touch me. I would resist having physical contact with her.

I dont talk to her very much when I get home. We play with each others mobile phones.

After more than a year, suddenly one day she filed for divorce, saying that such a day she really cant go on, its very painful

Well, Im on the verge of collapse.


@Anonymous 29 year old confidential Co., Ltd. Shanghai

Love for four years, I think she is very good, but also to the age of marriage, so married.

But it wasnt long before I got married that I found out she was cheating.

I didnt expect that such a gentle and pure woman would do such a thing. I didnt expect that she had two faces.

Then I also play with women outside, I also cheat, ha ha.

After all, at the beginning, she made a mistake first, but also she sorry me first. What dare she say?

Whats more, I want her to have a taste of it. Whats the taste of being betrayed and hurt?

The more painful she was, the more revengeful I felt.

When Im tired of playing, lets talk about it.

@Anonymous 32 year old editor coordinates Zhejiang

Yes, I forgive her.

If I do get divorced, I will definitely fight for custody.

She also said that the reason why she cheated before was that I didnt take care of her properly and often ignored her, which made her very lonely.

I thought men and women would be different, and she promised me not to do it again.

Although she made a mistake in this matter, it is undeniable that she is really a good mother.

But she still went to meet the man behind my back.

Just because the man said he was lonely and thought about her, she would have the heart to hurt me again. Ha ha, its ridiculous.


Because of my work, I run around all the year round, often not at home for two or three months.

I know its not good. I owe her a little, but I cant do anything about my work.

I was also planning to shift the focus of my work to the local level next year.

Once I didnt say hello to her when I went home in advance, I wanted to surprise her.

In the evening, I came home with a light hand and a light foot, and saw our bedroom half covered. I thought she was sleeping in it.

Then Ill tell her about the divorce.

If she agrees, we will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce in the morning. If she doesnt agree, I can only sue for divorce.

I never thought that such a bloody thing would happen to me. It turns out that the TV plays are real


Not a summary

How much care and courage is it to forgive a person who betrays himself?

Most of the reasons why some women cheat are that their husband is not good enough to ignore her or that man is more interesting and humorous than his husband.

Physical infidelity may be just boring or lonely, if spiritual infidelity, it is a complete denial of their own men.

There are problems between husband and wife can be spread out, are they husband and wife still so implicit? If it cant be solved, we can consider divorce.

Its like Sanmao said:

Marriage that cant stand the test will be derailed after all.

Can you really forgive each other for cheating? It wont be. Ill read the newspaper. GZH: Xiaoan Leon