There is a saying: the tone of a persons speech is more important than the content of his speech. Your tone hides your attitude towards people and things.
How good the tone is, how good the luck is.
Different tone, different effect of speaking
There is no lack of people with a knife mouth and a bean curd heart in life: Although my mouth is mean, I am kind.
words are the voice of the mind. No matter what your original intention is, a knife is a knife. The wound it cuts is real. No matter how good the feelings are, they cant stand the bitterness every day.
Language can warm the heart, can also be sad. The same meaning, say it in different tone, the listener will have different feelings.
During the Warring States period, there was a rare famine in the state of Qi, which killed many people. There was a rich man named Qian Ao who was kind-hearted. He couldnt bear to see so many people starve to death. So he gave porridge to the poor people passing by. One of the victims came unsteadily, moaning and groaning. It looked very painful. Qian Ao immediately picked up a bun and shouted at him, come here, Ill give you something to eat! The victim stopped and stared at Qian AO and said, do you think I will bear your insult and accept alms if I am hungry? Youre wrong! Even if I starve to death, I will not eat your food! Qian Ao realized that his tone was wrong, which made him misunderstood. Because of this sentence, the disaster victim refused to eat the food given by Qian Ao. At last, he starved to death on the side of the road.
Language is the best way to expose a person. As long as you speak, I can understand you, Ben Jonson said
Speak well, in a gentle voice, showing respect and consideration for others.
Your tone is what you look like in your heart
Speak appropriately and sincerely
Language is the way for the world to know you.
Speaking in a proper and sincere manner is not a smooth, routine, but a real emotion from the heart.
Zeng Guofan once wrote to his younger brother Zeng Guoquan, saying: I am confident and honest. I only want to experience the way of the world, to make things better, and to participate in some opportunities, which has ruined my familys learning.. In fact, its not as effective as others. It makes people laugh and teaches people to have regrets. Whats the benefit?
Playing mind and eye to learn power and skill can only lead to your own improper mind. If you lie, you will ruin yourself sooner or later.
Speak in a warm and friendly way
Originally, a good sentence will change the taste when you say it from your mouth. In fact, there is something wrong with your tone.
The tone is not good, it is very hurtful, after all, no one likes sarcasm.
Think about it before you speak. You may as well think about it from the other sides perspective. The source of desperate disease is not when there is no time to think, but when there is time to think.
Speak well to family, command less and satire less; speak well to friends, dont be impatient and dont complain; speak well to strangers, understand respect and tolerance.
The child came home late, can say: come back so late, mom and dad are very worried about you. Not: next time you come back so late, youll never come back! The old man likes to nag. He can say, Mom, I have a good life. Dont worry! Instead of: Mom, youre so upset. Dont worry about my business in the future. If you dont finish what you told your friends to do, you can say, whats the difficulty next time? Lets solve it together. Instead of: I cant do such a small thing, and how can I trust you!
The heart has good thoughts and the mouth spits out lotus flowers. In fact, mood is only a surface problem, and the deep root lies in the heart.
There is no humility in those who are proud in their hearts, no politeness in those who are rude in their hearts, and no comfort in those who are self-centered.
A good tone starts with cultivating the mind. Let the mind be flat and relaxed. Heaven and earth have no troubles. Why not go to the world with good words.
The tone of your voice determines your luck
What you say to others, you have what kind of life.
Some time ago, there was a video swiping online. The woman in the video came from Thailand and was told by the epidemic prevention personnel that she needed to be quarantined for 14 days. The woman didnt take it seriously and even scolded the front-line staff.
Such people are always full of resentment and spread all kinds of negative energy. In some places, they are mean in speech and put their own personal interests above social security.
At the critical moment, the tone exposed the character.
A good mood brings goodwill to others, but it also brings goodwill to others. A bad mood only makes people far away from you.
So, people with good tone will have a wider life path.