Can pull the black relationship, dont turn your face 2020-06-05 05:08:10 category:Lady He retorted: nonsense, the north pole is blowing strong wind!His eloquence is the reason why he cant speak well.In this world, there are many people like him;I used to fight with them for a long time, but later I found that it was not worth it.Once Yu Guangzhong was asked:Someone scolds you every day. Why dont you respond.He replied:Scolding me every day shows that he cant live without me;I didnt pay any attention and proved that my life could be without him. The truly powerful people have long been familiar with the way of pulling black and deleting.Wang Fei has a song called water melody, the lyrics of which are Sushis poems.A dream of Red Mansions is the last piece of music written by Cao Xueqin.Some people also heard that: the modern sense is too strong, the author of the word more cram several years of Chinese.I often say, dont turn your face on those who can ignore.Because not all fish live in the same sea.Basic common sense is also news for some people.No matter how positive you are, you can also meet words that make you speechless.Someone said that I had to change my career because the restaurant broke down.Later, I published a book, and he said I was the official account.I have 100 reasons to contradict him, but I dont;First of all, you should reduce your thinking to the same level as them;You can be emotional, at least the enemy of balance.Never discuss the length with people of different levels. Its a kind of internal friction.When I was a child, I had a strong competitive mind, distinct love and hate, and more exposed emotions.My father always said to me:What the world looks like has nothing to do with it;And it has to do with the way you see it.But my disgust with him can affect my judgment and values.For example, your good friend said: your clothes are wrinkled.But if someone you hate says that, you will be angry:Why does he judge me?The real inner strength is to be able to improve on those who hate you.Or find out his shallowness and ignorance at first time, and then stay away.A new reader asked me:There is a very annoying colleague in the company who always contradicts me;Its too tired to change jobs when you meet people you hate.According to workplace Psychology:Those we find annoying are often people who contradict our views;But sometimes its because of these people;People live through, to see things clearly, but also to look down on some things.Its better to introspect rather than quarrel and refute.When Huang Bo was just an actor, he was ignored and cheated.He suffered and wronged, but he could only bear it.Because as a little actor, he has no right to speak;If he is angry, he cant eat this bowl of rice.But later, when he became popular with the movie emperor, all the annoying people disappeared.Surrounded by smiling faces, he was called brother.Think about it. Is the annoying person changed his temper and reconciled with him?Hes out of those peoples hate range and wont get hurt easily.Like a technician friend of mine;When he first entered the company, anyone dared to show him the face.Eight years later, he is now an executive;He straightened his back and sighed:The relationship between adults is not easy to destroy.Its better to choose to ignore them and cultivate them into people they cant provoke.Pull those noisy people, your life will be cleaner.