Huang Leis sons birthday, two daughters fight for hot search: Brotherhood? Its not that simple

 Huang Leis sons birthday, two daughters fight for hot search: Brotherhood? Its not that simple

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Huang Leis little daughter plays the piano (source: Netease sports)

Oh, my God, this girls acting is just Gods food

My sister is so beautiful!

Two days later, on her sons third birthday, Sun Li baked many cakes for her brother, and many people praised her skills.

Two daughters strive for hot search, excellent people envy, but also people love. Because children will envy each other and compete with each other, even if they are close to Huang Leis sisters.

Apart from the love that my brother separated from his parents after his birth, the careful thinking between the two sisters is enough for Huang Lei and Sun Li to ponder.

When my sister first came, I couldnt help worrying about whether my parents only loved my sister and didnt love her. I tried my best to make my parents love me a little more.

Mom and dad have given a lot of resources. They praise countless talents. Their younger sister is also unwilling to be praised. They are eager to be praised and praised by many stars like their elder sister. They win the same love and attention from their parents.

Ordinary peoples children are jealous, but they are just robbing a toy and fighting. The two sisters are jealous, which is a big competition of 18 talents. They cant use their own strength to overwhelm each others appearance. Im afraid they cant get over it.

Who parents prefer is an unavoidable topic for families with many children. According to a study in the Journal of marriage and family, 75% of mothers admit to being closer to a particular child.

As time senior editor Jeffrey Krueger said: 95% of parents are biased, and the remaining 5% just dont want to admit it.

It is said that mother and son love is only fate for decades, and brotherhood is a lifetime of love. Parents raise more children to have more company, but children are not born to be company. Parents are biased. Its two children who are destroyed.

At the dinner table, my mother always thought Mingyu didnt exist when she brought food to my brother. Anything delicious was reserved for my two brothers. Mingyu could only make do with it, but she was responsible for all the housework, including the dirty clothes of my two brothers.

In order for her brother to go to school in the United States, her parents sold Mingyus room. She asked her mother for advice, but she was scolded: we need to ask for your advice when we sell our house?

Second brother didnt pass the college entrance examination score line, so his parents had to pay him two copies; after graduation, he couldnt find a job, but also spent money to buy a good unit for him; before going to work, second brother planned to travel, and his mother offered 2000 yuan. Mingyu is going to report to a class for a sprint because she wants to take the Tsinghua exam. She needs a thousand yuan. Her mother says that there is not so much money in her family.

In the mothers view, all the needs of Mingyu can be sacrificed to meet the needs of her son.

Many parents are used to sacrificing one child to satisfy the other, which is called humility, and they think its right to let the big one give way to the small one, the girl to the boy, and the excellent one can be preferred.

Its not that you cant be humble, its just that every time you are asked, the child who isnt favored sees the truth.

Maybe you think its just a TV play. Where in real life are such eccentric parents? But because of parents partiality, there are few programs that put family conflicts on TV?

In the variety show teacher please answer, an 11-year-old boy walked onto the stage crying. In his family, brother and sister are double standards.

When he plays with his cell phone, he has to hand it in an hour. My sister said that five episodes are good-looking, and another ten episodes can be seen after a Jiao.

If my sister robbed my brothers toys, no matter how much he wanted to play or how many times he let them, he had to give them to my sister, or my father would hit him.

Sister wilfully tear off his homework paper, Dad would say that it is just a piece of paper, can it be more important than family affection?

Of course, family love is thousands of times more important than a piece of paper, but Dads practice tore his sons love into pieces.

An 11-year-old, watching his mothers sister call the wind and call the rain at home, does not even have the right to protect a piece of paper. You tell him that family love is greater than heaven, let him love his sister, how can he do it?

For children, its more hurtful than parents who dont love themselves. Because Ive seen what love is, I feel more sad than I cant get it.

Sibling jealousy is not formed in a day, because there is a deep emotional component. Children often hate their brothers and sisters while denying their negative emotions, which generally goes through three stages.

The first stage is subconscious jealousy, which is manifested in the behavior of fighting and robbing toys. In fact, it is the envy that the other side gets more love and attention from parents.

This stage of the phenomenon is relatively common, often will not produce any serious consequences, parents coordinate well, childrens jealousy will be defeated by kinship, develop deep brotherhood.

Just like Duo Duo Duo and Mei Mei, they still love each other and take care of each other even though they are jealous and fighting each other because of the imbalance of their parents love.

At this stage, children not only love fighting, but also always want to kill each other. They cant see each other being loved. They will deliberately pick up a fault, complain and frame up. They think that they can get the same favor if they defeat each other.

There is a widely concerned question on Zhihu: what will be the impact of the education mode of elder sister gives way to younger brother?

One of the answers is: as soon as my mother says this, next time I hit my brother, Ill be more serious.

Many people only see the girls affection, but they dont know how many times she has been unfairly treated by her parents. She didnt have no love for her brother, but was hurt by her parents preference again and again. She changed her love for her brother to conscious jealousy because she felt that without him, she could get love again.

The third stage is hate. The parents long-term and double partiality will make the children who are favored arrogant, and the children who are not favored indignant. Finally, it turns into a love hate dispute between brothers and sisters, so that compatriots turn against each other.

Just like Su Mingyu and Su Mingcheng, because of their consanguinity, the broken bones are still connected with tendons. They cant be good relatives or strangers, so they can only be enemies. They can be polite to strangers, but they cant squeeze out a smile in the face of brothers and sisters mixed with love and hate.

In the second child era, parents all want to add a companion to their children. When they grow up, they can support each other. However, there are still many parents who indulge their partiality and let the tragedy repeat over and over again.

The harmony and joy of the family stems from the restraint of parents. They are not judges, and they dont care about one another. They realize the differences between children, but they dont judge or compare. They are given enough love, respect and freedom. At the same time, they restrain their own preferences. They deliberately remind themselves to pay more attention to the other child if they like the other child better.

Parents give their children a balanced and loving childhood, and they will cherish this brotherhood.

Source: parents meeting Author: Yang Xiaoyang editor in charge: Shi Yue_ NS3913