So, when new employees meet leaders for dinner, should they take the initiative to pay? Is this kind of behavior flattering the leadership and slapping the horse? Especially after the 95th session, there is no such hidden rule as pee. How much work and how much salary do you get? Its just natural that you dont need to kneel and lick? Mr. Ma is so successful and still believes in the power of Eq. there was a classic golden sentence: IQ prevents failure and EQ determines success. Shanghai tycoon once said that the Jianghu is not fighting and killing, but the world. The workplace is like the Jianghu. Its not a bad thing to know a little about the world.
Should I pay for the leaders when I meet them? To see clearly these four situations, two need to buy, two dont buy, dont flatter on horseshoes, have eyes to be lifted, will come to be used.
u30101u3011 If you encounter a leader eating alone, you can take the initiative to pay the bill and close the relationship.
Domestic workplace culture is the opposite of Western workplace culture. In the Western workplace, the dinner party is not an AA system and should be paid by the senior. The domestic workplace is in line with the potential rules of human society. The lower the position, the higher the position, the less used to carrying money.
Often encountered leaders eat, that is the canteen mode, you take the initiative to pay, must be despised by colleagues. In a small restaurant, its not flattering to meet a leader for dinner and pay the bill. Its human nature. Whats more, if two people eat alone, the cost will not be high, and they take the initiative to pay the bill, its easy to get closer to each other. If you can drink another beer, you can all make friends. Why not?
Think about it from another position. You are the leader. If you see your subordinates quietly and far away from eating, you dont want to spend tens of dollars to pay the bill. Instead, you think that this guy has no vision and price, cant get on the table, and can you think of this guy when you encounter good things in the future?
I ran into a leaders family with three people eating, and the consumption is not high. I can go over and say hello, leader, its a coincidence that your family is also eating here. Ive brought the bill together. If you need to say hello, please. If the leader says, Oh, youre Li Haiba from the business department. Youre too polite. You dont have to pay the bill. Eating today is simply to celebrate your childs birthday. By the way, you bought the single, and then you sent a small cake, I happened to meet the child for his birthday, and I sent a small cake, and I wish the child a happy birthday. Then say hello to the leader, the bill has been settled, and leave in advance. Dont flatter me. Just keep a human nature in mind. Leaders will feel your generosity and decency. They will also have face in front of their families. You can see how respectable and respectful my subordinates are to their superiors.
u30103u3011 In principle, leaders should not disturb or pay for meals with women alone.
When you go to a restaurant for dinner, you happen to meet the leader alone to have dinner with a strange woman. If you dont know whats going on, dont act rashly. In general, leaders will take the initiative to introduce to you, Li Hai, this is my love. Say hello again warmly. If the leader doesnt take the initiative to say hello to you, you nod, walk by with a smile, eat each others food and dont pay attention to the privacy of others, it is the greatest courtesy. If the leader introduces you to the other party, just a simple business meal, you can also quietly ask the leader, do you need me to pay for you? If you ask more questions, it is better to be rational and sensible and respect the opinions of leaders than to act rashly.
You can go over with a glass of wine in a generous way and give a toast to the leader. If the leader introduces you to the table, everyone, this is Li Hai from our business department, a young and promising young man. Take the bottle and offer a toast. If the leader doesnt introduce you, you will come back after you respect the leader. Dont propose a toast to the people present. If the leader doesnt want you to participate, dont participate in anything.