The day before yesterday, there was a hot search on Weibo.
At about two oclock that night, my boyfriend came back from the outside. Xiao Li wants to see his mobile phone because she suspects her boyfriend has a woman outside.
As a result, the man refused to let them quarrel. Angry Xiaoli rushed into the kitchen and threw a kitchen knife at her boyfriend.
As soon as the boyfriend hid, the kitchen knife fell straight from the window.
Hit a range rover parked downstairs.
The range rover is an extended version with a market price of nearly 2 million.
The repair order given by the 4S shop costs about 130000 yuan to repair the car.
At present, Xiao Li is in criminal detention on suspicion of endangering public security by dangerous means.
After reading the news, I was in a cold sweat.
40th floor, its still a kitchen knife. It directly smashed a big hole in the car. You can imagine how terrible it is.
Netizens all said: Fortunately, it wasnt the person who hit. If its a person, you have to die.
Thats not 13 everything.
But even if the hit is a car, Xiao Li is now unemployed, and this money is estimated to be a heavy burden.
Everyone has a time when they are in a hurry, but the more emotional it is, the more explosive you are.
Society is not your parents
Last year, a female passenger in Haikou was sentenced to four years in prison for a slap in the face of rage.
Chen, a female passenger, questioned that the bus driver charged 1 yuan more for the fare, and slapped the driver while the bus was still running.
Meilan District Court of Haikou City sentenced Chen to four years in prison for the crime of endangering public security by dangerous means.
At the scene of the trial, Chen shed tears of regret.
The driver is driving, and his life is in his hands. If you rush up, you will be slapped. If the driver stumbles, it is likely that the car will be destroyed.
There is always this kind of person in life. All of them are centered on their own emotions and cant reasonably control their emotions.
I think that if I suffer a little grievance, I will vent my dissatisfaction to the whole world. If I have a little emotion, I will ask everyone to pay for her.
Such a person is playing a dangerous game with the devil.
Thats why Napoleon said: a man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take down a city.
On the contrary, when a person is out of control, his IQ really equals zero.
Society is not your parents, no one will pay for you.
To control life
When I was little, the little boy in the neighborhood was very naughty.
A little wronged like to throw stones at other children, or even smash the nearby peoples glass several times.
We all say that the child must be a gangster when he grows up.
His father was very worried. In order to restrain him, he had to hammer a nail in the wooden door every time he lost his temper.
He ordered more than 20 on the first day.
Later, his father told the little boy: when you can control your temper, pull out a nail.
Finally one day he pulled out all the nails.
In fact, when people are angry, they say things like nails. Even if they are pulled out later, they will leave scars in their hearts.
With more nails, our life will be scarred.
Some people are usually honest, even gentle, but their emotions turn into flames.
As time goes by, the people around you will stay away.
Small, may affect the atmosphere of a family; large, may change a persons fate.
The best-selling book how to control your emotions: 22 effective laws of emotion management says:
If we dont control them well, we can only let them burst the levee and overflow and harm others and ourselves.
A really powerful person must be one who knows how to control emotions, and one who has a kind heart to the world.
Its instinct to lose your temper
Controlling emotions is the skill
For depression, resentment and other emotions, we should let it be natural and look down on it a little bit, and our mind will be broader.
As the ancients said, Qi hurts the body greatly, in fact, it is very wise.
Modern medicine shows that peoples emotions often fluctuate greatly, which will cause physiological diseases.
According to statistics, more than 70% of diseases are related to emotions, and at present, there are more than 200 kinds of diseases related to emotions.
Therefore, to make yourself a peaceful person is not only good for others, but also good for yourself.
People are defeated by themselves, and first by their emotions, Jobs said
Having emotions is instinct. Being able to control emotions is the biggest skill.
We have been pursuing peace and joy all our lives. Some people ask God to worship Buddha every day. Some people worry all day long.
In fact, blessing is not elsewhere, nor money status.
Good luck is not bought, but built in a long life.
Click looking. Please believe that when you know how to control bad emotions, blessings will come naturally.
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