Later, at 21:00, as usual, Wu Lei updated his article on his wechat official account Wu Leis weekly record, thanking his wife.
Todays weekly record is very special, because it was written by my wife. The reason is that she sent a circle of friends on Monday, which roughly means that she thanked me for caring about our relatives and friends after my diagnosis. I felt a little sad after seeing it. At dinner in the evening, I asked her if it was very hard to accompany me here this year. She smiled.
I said, or you can also write down your experience. I can send weekly notes. She didnt answer. Before going to bed, I received the following paragraph from her.
The following is the text of Wu Leis wife:
After confirming the transfer, I first went to Dubai to join him. At that time, he didnt go home for several months. Then I went to Barcelona from Dubai, and wanted to check out the rental first. Later, his national team came to join me after the end. At that time, we stayed in the hotel every day and worried about eating every day.
At that time, I didnt know the language and the environment. After almost a months living, I finally rented a room and went to IKEA to order furniture. I wanted to settle everything down and my family would come together. Later, my visa expired and I had to go back. He stayed here alone for more than a month. After finishing the visa for my family in China, we came together on April 5 and settled here When it was settled, the children went to school.
During the summer vacation, we all went home for a holiday. At the end of June, we went back to Barcelona together. The children spent the summer vacation in China. Those two months were the most difficult time for me. They trained intensively for half a month. I was at home alone. At that time, it was probably the most difficult time for me to grow up. The whole person was very closed. Facing the unfamiliar environment and language, I was not at home alone Want to go out, dont want to talk and dont want to make friends, and finally when he came back, Im much better. Fortunately, Ive met a few friends here, and they really helped me a lot.
Wu Leis shoulder operation.
In the middle of this period, we have slowly adapted to the life here, and everything is on the right track.
Later, when school began in September, he would report to the national team every month since October. I had to take them here alone, pick them up and take them home every day, buy vegetables and cook. At that time, I was really busy. Sometimes when I bought too many things in the supermarket, I would carry them on the way home, so I didnt want to cry, and I didnt know whether it was too heavy or not. It was very easy to be a mother Burst into tears. Every afternoon when I sleep with them is my time alone. I must cherish it.
Because the previous rental house is far away from the school, and then we temporarily moved to the house in the city, which is not big but very warm. It took us a long time to move things here little by little, little by little. Before he went to report for the national team, he had finally moved.
I still remember when the washing machine didnt come in and I had to wash the childrens clothes by hand every day, and then I took the clothes to my hometown for washing at the weekend. Now I dont know how I persisted at that time.
I still remember that last year when I went back to Shanghai, I was very excited. When I left Shanghai, I would be lost. I wanted to cry very much. After I got used to the life here, I gradually didnt feel like this. Maybe I was numb.
Do you want to give up when you meet difficulties? There must have been. When we think of so many difficulties, we have overcome why we should give up. Hayao Miyazaki said in a thousand and a thousand seek, no matter how hard the road ahead is, as long as you walk in the right direction, no matter how rough, you are closer to happiness than standing in the same place.
After he developed symptoms, our family was ready to be separated. When we moved things to another place for isolation, we gave each other a hug, a hug of ourselves who had experienced the year. In addition, I also want to say that my babies, who have worked hard, cant understand a word of western language in a strange environment since they just came here, and now they communicate fluently with their classmates, my parents are really pleased. Thanks for these experiences, lets live a more transparent life.
Thats what she wrote. The reason I share it with you is that I want everyone to know that I have such a good wife. Maybe for you, the year I saw was all the records I left on the football field, appearances, assists, goals. Behind these figures, for me, is the silent effort of family members.
I believe that every ordinary family will have the same feelings as me. I wanted to write something to thank you this week, but now I want to ask you to allow me to thank the most important person in my life first.
Thank you for everything you have done for our family. Thank you to everyone who has made contributions to our family in this special period. What we have experienced is really ordinary and great!