A good mother-in-law is a good daughter-in-law

 A good mother-in-law is a good daughter-in-law

Every family has a hard book to read

I saw a survey about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law some time ago.

In family life, more than 75% of people will be troubled by the problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The reason, however, is because of some small details in life, leading to the subjective consciousness of both sides.

Throughout the ages, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the biggest contradiction in family life.

The harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will make a family more harmonious, and the whole family is like a spring breeze; the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not only make the family stir up, but also make the neighbors uneasy.

So how do mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along?

Ive heard such a story that a couple of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law dont get along well with each other and always dislike each other.

Because of a long time of depression, both of them finally got sick.

So my mother-in-law went to a famous local doctor for treatment. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law said that her daughter-in-law was not right, and the doctor frowned.

Seeing the doctors expression, my mother-in-law stopped talking and said, doctor, am I seriously ill?.

The doctor said helplessly, Im sorry, but I cant help it. Please ask for more wisdom!

Hearing the doctors words, my mother-in-law realized the seriousness of it, and her face turned white immediately.

Doctor, you must save me. Everyone knows that your medical skill is one of the best. If you cant help it, do I have any treatment?

My mother-in-law kept asking the doctor for help.

After you go home today, you should find ten advantages of your daughter-in-law within a week. Come back after you find them!

Although the mother-in-law is very reluctant, she can only follow the doctors advice for her own health.

Before long, my daughter-in-law came to the doctor for consultation. The doctor told her the same way.

According to the doctors prescription, they start to look for each others advantages every day. At the beginning, its hard to find out that their mentality has changed and their perspective on each other has changed.

They will soon find each others strengths, and their relationship will become more harmonious.

In the end, the two peoples condition naturally healed.

In fact, the biggest problem for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along with each other is that they put each other on the opposite side of their own at the beginning, and regard each other as their own rivals. With such a mindset, how can they get along peacefully.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is originally a fate. Only when we think about each others problems and find each others advantages, we will naturally have a harmonious family and be happy.

A good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be mutual respect

Xiaosu, the reader, said that on the day she married her husband, her mother-in-law was very happy and promised in her face: from today on, I will treat you as my daughter-in-law.

But many people told her: dont be too happy too early, you are one kind now, married is another kind, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a big problem, enough for you.

At first, Xiaosu was worried about getting along with her mother-in-law, so she would look at her eyes and act no matter what she did, for fear that she would make mistakes and cause family conflicts.

But after getting along for a long time, Xiaosu found that grandma was actually a very gentle person, open-minded and magnanimous, and it was not difficult to get along with her.

Now she has been married for six years. Xiaosu has never had a red face with her mother-in-law.

All this is not only because of Xiaosus kindness and consideration, but also the mother-in-laws understanding.

In daily life, no matter what Xiaosu does, her mother-in-law will not directly refuse and refute, but will respect the opinions of her daughter-in-law and think about problems from her daughter-in-laws perspective.

Usually, I have to get up early to work. After a hard rest, I want to sleep late. My mother-in-law always prepares breakfast, but never urges her to get up early. On Valentines day, when I want to go out with my husband to commemorate it, my mother-in-law will take the initiative to say, Ill take you kids, you have fun! Even if there are some minor contradictions, my mother-in-law will never gossip in front of others, and my neighbors always say that my daughter-in-law is good

My mother-in-law is so generous and treats her as if she were her own. After a long time, Xiao Su also slowly relaxed his mind and more considerate of her mother-in-laws difficulties.

Tu Lei said:

If the daughter-in-law has become a mother-in-law for many years, then the mother-in-law, as a person who has passed by, should be more considerate of the difficulties of the daughter-in-law; if the daughter-in-law can understand that it is not easy to be a mother, as a mother and a daughter, should be more aware of the hard work of the mother-in-law; the love as one sees oneself is to compare the heart with the heart, and treat each other respectfully.

There is no natural enemy, only a relationship that cant be communicated. Besides, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law love the same person.

On the other hand, mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law, that is, her son. Why not?

Most of the conflicts in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are caused by the middleman in common love.

Many married men, may have heard a sentence: your mother and I fell into the water at the same time, who do you save first?.

This lethality ten deadly problem, once made a lot of men panic.

However, more and more men will find loopholes in the questions, and go the opposite way to divert womens attention.

Although most of them are joking, the result is surprisingly good.

This reflects a mans role in reconciliation between his mother-in-law and his daughter-in-law. A man with high EQ always understands womens mind, makes his wife happy and his mother happy.

The magic weapon for men is a bowl of water.

I have seen such a cartoon. My mother-in-law and my daughter-in-law are quarreling with each other because of the contradiction. Both sides are angry.

The big bowl on the top of the husbands head, his hands open to cover the rain for his wife and mother.

No matter which side is biased, the other side will always be hurt. Only by keeping a bowl of water level can both sides feel warm.

An expert said: only a husband with a bowl of water is a good husband. A really smart man should be a man with truth and justice. Sooner or later, he will make both sides happy.

In fact, most of the mother-in-law relationship originates from the fact that the mother feels that she has loved her baby for many years and has been bullied by other women, while the wife feels that the mother-in-law always favors her son and has no status in the family and is full of grievances.

As the pillar of a family, a man should learn to reconcile, understand not only his wifes difficulties, but also his mothers pains.

In daily life, take the initiative to undertake housework, let the mother know who is the head of the family; learn to respect your wife, because only when you respect, your family will respect; get along well with your wife, let the mother know that because of this woman, you are very happy now

In a good family relationship, the husbands role in reconciliation is actually enormous.

When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts, the first-class men reconcile, the second-class men escape, the third-class men get angry, and the fourth class men join the team.

Every man should be that first-class man, so that the family will be more harmonious.

It means that when children send soup to their parents home, it should be lukewarm and just right.

The right relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be that of a gentleman, which should respect each other and not alienate too much.

Papi sauce also talked about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a variety show, she said: mother-in-law wants to treat daughter-in-law as a daughter, but daughter-in-law cannot treat mother-in-law as a mother.

Because there should be more respect and distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The true love is not to care beyond the boundary.

Click here to see that the state of family happiness must be to have a good mother-in-law before a good daughter-in-law; a good husband before a good wife.