But what I want to say is that when two people are together, the most important thing is to do this: trust each other. I cant imagine how the lack of trust will continue.
Its really not easy for two people to get to know each other and love each other. If you really love someone, please be honest and frank with them. Only when you are sincere enough to each other can you fully trust each other.
In any case, please keep the necessary trust in your partner.
1. A relationship cant last without trust
Feelings without trust, like plants lacking water for a long time, are doomed to not live long. When you always suspect and test each other in your feelings, you would rather believe the gossip of others than the sincerity of your partner, then your feelings will be impossible to talk about.
Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Money is gone, you can fight together and try to earn it back. However, there is no trust. If you want to restore it, it will be very difficult.
Trust building is very difficult, much more complicated than knitting a sweater, and takes more time and cost. However, the destruction of trust is only in a moment.
When you dont want to trust your partner and you dont open your heart to each other anymore, the distance between you will get further and further. There are many factors that lead to the breakdown of a relationship. One of the most important is that you no longer believe in each other easily. You are full of endless suspicion and temptation towards each other.
Since you no longer trust someone, you will not want to live with them forever. You will try to stay away from each other, and your feelings will fall apart.
2. When misunderstandings occur in feelings, they must be clarified in time
Trust is important when two people are together. If there are conflicts or misunderstandings in your relationship, you must clarify or solve them in time. If you always ignore the misunderstandings and contradictions in your feelings, and you cant solve the problems in your feelings in the first time, then your feelings will generate a crisis of trust.
Once there are all kinds of misunderstandings in your relationship, dont turn a blind eye to it, let alone take it lightly.
Because these seemingly trivial misunderstandings may lead to a rift in your relationship, and you may not easily believe each other any more.
3. Its better to get together rather than live in lies and suspicions
If you dont believe each other from the beginning, your feelings are full of all kinds of lies and deceptions, then your feelings will not last.
Who do you think you can cheat? Even if you cheat the whole world, you cant cheat your heart. In fact, you cant fool anyone. Apart from the fact that people who really love you will believe your bad lies, people will not really care what you say.
In other words, your lies can only deceive people who really care about you. For a person who doesnt care about you at all, it doesnt matter whether you tell a truth or a lie, because no one cares whether you lie or not.
Instead of living in lies and suspicions, you might as well get together and disperse. Because love cant stand any deception and lies. Even a white lie, the point is not enough.
In a word, when two people are together, the most important thing is to do this well, that is to fully trust each other. If you suddenly stop believing in someone, it means that some of the other persons behaviors may have frustrated you.
If you want your relationship to last a long time, first of all, you should not easily lie to your partner, and you should not easily doubt his sincerity. Secondly, if you find that your partner lies to you or has doubts about your partner, you must find out in time.
In the face of all kinds of misunderstandings or contradictions in your relationship, you must pay enough attention to them. You should solve the seemingly insignificant problems that may affect your emotional stability at the first time.
Love does not doubt, doubt people do not love. If you dont trust each other from the beginning, then dont fall in love with each other easily. If you decide to associate or love someone, then please trust him a little more, less suspicion, and dont try to test his sincerity. Because feelings cant stand repeated temptations and suspicions.
If you are always on the edge of your heart when you are in a relationship, and you are too worried about gain and loss, and you are still unwilling to fully trust your partner, then you dont have to suffer and endure in this virtual relationship.
Only when you trust each other, you can be sincere and frank with each other, your feelings will be longer, and your feelings will be able to truly withstand the test of time and the baptism of years.