So, how can a man really understand the subtext of a womans words?
1. Usually chat with her more
If you want to really understand what a woman is saying, you should pay attention to spending more time with her to talk. If you usually know little about her, you never spend time with her, you dont even have time to chat with her, then you cant really understand the subtext of womens words.
If you can take more time to chat with her and talk with her, and you can really integrate into her inner world, you will naturally be able to understand her inner real thoughts and feelings more easily.
2. Start with her friends
If you cant hear the truth from a woman, start with her friends. You can get to know what shes thinking recently by communicating with her friends.
When a woman is in love, it may not be convenient for her to tell you what she has in mind, but she will certainly talk to her close friends or friends. So, when you cant guess what a woman is thinking in her heart, you might as well go to her relatives and friends to explore and understand.
For example, she recently encountered difficulties in her work. Her mood fluctuated greatly. She was wronged. She felt oppressed. She complained about you. She may not tell you all these thoughts directly, but she will tell her friends and girlfriends.
Since you want to understand the subtext of a womans words and her real thoughts and intentions, you need to know how to start with her friends. You need to actively contact her friends and communicate with them more.
Maybe, you will get the information you want from her friends. Once you get the latest thoughts and real thoughts of women from others, you can understand the subtext of womens words more intuitively and quickly.
3. Watch her microexpression carefully
If a man wants to really understand the subtext of a womans words, you may as well carefully observe her micro expression. When you communicate with a woman, you should not only listen to her mouth, but also pay attention to her facial expression. You should guess her real thoughts from her tone, attitude and way of speaking.
The same sentence, with different tone, can express the opposite meaning. For example, when a woman says to you in a gentle voice, youre such a nuisance. Then you can understand that she doesnt really hate you. She is actually coquetting you.
If a woman says to you in a vicious tone or attitude, you hate it. Then you should realize clearly that she really hates you.
When a woman talks to you, her face is always full of bright and sweet smile, which means she is in a good mood, she gets along well with you, and she is satisfied with you.
In a word, if a man wants to really understand a womans words, you should carefully observe her micro expression, you should always pay attention to the way she speaks, you should also pay attention to usually chat with her and talk with her, and enhance the feelings between each other.
If you really cant understand the subtext of a womans words, you cant really understand the real idea of a woman, and you always know half of what she says, you can start with her friends, you can find her friends or girlfriends to understand her real idea.
If you really know how to spend time and energy for a woman, I think you can understand the subtext of a womans words. The fear is that you dont understand her words, you dont want to listen attentively, and you dont want to spend a lot of time managing your relationship.
Sometimes, you are not really unable to understand what she is saying, but your heart is no longer on her. So, even if she speaks directly and simply, you will still pretend to be confused and you will pretend not to understand.
Therefore, men should maintain the necessary enthusiasm and sincerity for women. When you know how to compare ones heart with another and think in anothers place, you will be able to really understand the subtext of womens words.