In a relationship, some topics can be talked about and some topics should not be touched. So, when talking with a woman, what details should a man pay attention to in order to really enter her heart?
1. Dont talk about her emotional experience
When chatting with a woman, a man should try not to talk about her emotional experience. If you talk to a woman, always like to talk about her past emotional experience, she may turn against you.
Let bygones be bygones. When a woman finally lets go of a relationship, she finally comes out of the last failed relationship. As a result, when you chat with her, you keep asking about her past experience. You force her to relive the painful taste and the bitterness of losing love again, then the woman will naturally hate you.
In love, a man with high EQ will not take the initiative to talk about his past emotional experience with a woman when he chats with her. Because he knows that the most valuable thing to cherish and have is the time when we love each other.
If you dont know how to cherish the present, but always live in the past, and you are worried about womens past emotional experience, then you may lose a womans love and sincerity, and it will be difficult for you to really enter her heart.
2. Dont talk about her weakness
Everyone will have their own weakness in mind. When you want to win a womans love and sincerity, you should try not to talk about her weakness.
The softest part of a womans heart is often not easily displayed in front of strangers. Unless she trusts you very much, she thinks you are a man who can be entrusted for life, otherwise, she will not easily show you her special vulnerable and helpless side.
In love, if a woman is willing to show you her shortcomings and weakness, she doesnt mind letting you see her not so bright side, she will let you feel the real pain and confusion in her heart, so that she doesnt take you as an outsider, she really likes and cares about you.
When you are not sure whether your feelings are stable and mature, youd better not probe into the soft spots in a womans heart. If you want to master the weakness in a womans heart, you need to experience and observe with your heart.
Only when you know how to pay attention to the details of two peoples relationship, when you talk with a woman, you can give her gentle care, you will not give her a sense of aggressive oppression, women can open their hearts to you, and you can really enter her heart.
3. Dont talk about things she doesnt like
When you talk to a woman, you should try not to talk about topics that she is not interested in at all. For example, you should not talk about sports with women, and you should not talk about things that women are not good at.
If you talk to a woman and find her face getting ugly, she is disgusted and disgusted with the topic you are talking about, then you should quickly change the topic, and you should not continue to discuss this topic with her.
Men in the feelings, to pay attention to observation, you need to know how to think about transposition. If you are not sure or interested in something, you will not try it easily. In the same way, if a woman is not interested in the topic you are talking about, and she does not know it very well, she will be full of resistance to it, and she will want to end the topic as early as possible.
So, when you are talking to a woman, you should try to avoid being cold. Once you realize that the atmosphere of chatting becomes more and more awkward and silent, the woman is no longer willing to take care of you, and she has lost the necessary enthusiasm for you, it means that she may not want to continue chatting with you.
Since shes not very interested in the topic youre talking about, or she doesnt know the topic youre talking about at all, she doesnt know what to talk about with you, she cant get in at all, she has no way to participate in it all the time, so its hard for you to enter her heart.
In short, when chatting with women, men should pay attention to all aspects of details. You need to know some things or topics. You can talk with women freely, but youd better keep silent about some things or topics.
Men in love, to master the scale and discretion of talking with women. You should keep the necessary restraint and limit, and you should not easily challenge the bottom line of a womans patience.
If you always talk to a woman about her emotional experience, about a topic she neither likes nor is good at, or you cant help talking about the soft spots in her heart, you cant stop uncovering her scars and making her ache, then its difficult for you to really walk into a womans heart.
When you want to truly integrate into womens lives and enter womens hearts, you should pay attention to the way of chatting. If you meet a woman for the first time, you can talk with her about movies or TV series that are more interested in each other, about each others growth experience and background, and so on.
Only when you know how to chat with a woman attentively, you are a more humorous person. When you chat with a woman, you can make her laugh and make her feel happy and comfortable from the bottom of her heart, then you can really walk into a womans heart. Otherwise, women will shut you out.