Generally speaking, after marriage, if a man treats you like this, it means that you may have married the wrong person.
1. Never speak for you when there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
If a man really loves you, he will always hold you in his heart, and he will give priority to your feelings and mood. Especially when you have conflicts with your mother-in-law, he will not hesitate to stand on your side.
Because he really loves you, he will not easily let you suffer a little injustice in your marriage. Facing the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a man will not easily escape, and he will not scold you without asking.
When a man cant make a bowl of water level in his marriage, when you have a conflict with his mother-in-law, he only knows to favor his mother-in-law, and he never stands on your side, it means that he doesnt really like and care about you.
Since a man is not willing to intercede or talk for you, he will even cooperate with his mother-in-law to deal with you, then you should stay away from him as early as possible no matter how much you love him.
2. Long term separation after marriage, he will spend too little time with you
After marriage, if a man is separated from you for a long time, and the time he really accompanies you all year round is very little, it means that he doesnt love you enough, and you may marry the wrong person.
If a man really loves you or cares about you, he will definitely spare time to accompany and take care of you after marriage. No matter how busy or tired he is, he will find time to listen to your heart.
If after a man and you get married, he often leaves early and returns late, or even stays up all night, he always finds various excuses to deliberately alienate and ignore you, then it means that he has no you in his heart, and he is not true love for you.
A man who really loves you, whether before or after marriage, will guard and accompany you with his heart. Even if you have to be separated for a while, he will keep in touch with you and communicate with you at any time after he is separated from you. He will not lose contact with you easily.
Once you find that a man is in a marriage and doesnt willing to spend time and energy for you, his time with you is very few, then you should know that he doesnt really like and care about you, and you dont have to continue to pay all the love and sincerity for him.
3. Like to evade and shirk responsibility without any sense of responsibility
To judge whether a woman is married to a man, it is very important to know whether the man has a sense of responsibility. If a man is never willing to take the corresponding responsibility and obligation in marriage, he always likes to escape from reality and shirk responsibility, and he has no responsibility and sense of responsibility, then you may have married the wrong person.
A man who really loves you will never shirk his responsibility easily. Because he loves you, he will want to give you the best. Because he really cares about you, he will accompany you to experience unknown challenges.
No matter what kind of setbacks or frustrations will happen in the future, he will firmly accompany you. Even if everyone doubts or questions you, he will stand on your side without hesitation. He will take the initiative to shoulder the responsibility of marriage, and he will create a clear sky for you.
If a man always escapes from problems in his marriage, and he is unwilling to actively find solutions to problems. Even if he makes mistakes, he is unwilling to admit his mistakes, which means that he can not give you the security you really want, and you may marry the wrong person.
In short, after marriage, if a man can not give you a full sense of security and happiness, you feel displaced in the marriage, you have no sense of existence and belonging, then you may have married the wrong person.
If a man cant love you with all his heart in his marriage, and he doesnt want to warm and take care of you with his heart, then you should know that his heart is no longer on you.
Since a man refuses to love you with all his heart, his love for you is greatly reduced. He starts to alienate and neglect you gradually. He even often loses his temper or scolds you inexplicably, which shows that he may not really like and care about you.
Since a man doesnt have you in his heart and his love for you is neither single-minded nor long-term, then you dont need to waste time and energy on him. You should find a man who loves you sincerely.