Since you choose to love each other, you should cherish the time when you love each other. No matter what storms and hardships you will encounter in the future, you will always be hand in hand and heart in heart.
Generally speaking, true and beautiful love is hidden in these details.
1. You have nothing to talk about together.
True love is hidden in your dialogue. When you are together and you can really talk together, you can also have strong emotional resonance, which means that your love is really good.
The key to judging whether a love is good enough is whether you have a common language. If you cant talk together all the time, and you are prone to quarrel and even the cold war every time you talk, then your love may have produced deep cracks.
Since you have no common language and you are always silent when you are together, it means that the distance between your heart and your heart is getting farther and farther.
When you dont talk very much in love, you are always silent and you are always unwilling to be honest with each other, then your love may die at any time.
In love, if you can sincerely face each others hearts, you are willing to listen to each others hearts, you are together full of laughter, then your love is really beautiful.
Only when your relationship breaks down and your love withers will you become more and more indifferent. You cant help wanting to escape from this love.
2. Be able to understand each others laughter points
Its not easy to find someone who really understands your laughter. When you are with a person, you may be able to laugh at yourself or tell some cold jokes for the sake of enlivening the atmosphere and alleviating the embarrassment, but the other party has no reaction after listening to them. His face is full of puzzlement and disdain. That means he cant really understand where your laughter point is. He may not be with you all the way.
When you meet someone who really understands your laughter, you must cherish it. Because he and you have the same interests and hobbies, he can understand your jokes in seconds, his own personality is more cheerful, he is very humorous and funny, so you and he together will be full of endless fun, you will be full of enthusiasm and hope for life.
3. Never evade problems
True and beautiful love is that you can face all the problems in your feelings bravely together. When you meet any problems, you will not easily escape, but actively try to solve them.
No matter how close you are to each other, there will inevitably be various conflicts or contradictions over a long period of time. At this time, if you can resolve contradictions and embarrassment through communication in time, and you are willing to maintain good communication and interaction, then your love will be better.
If you are always avoiding problems in love, and you are never willing to actively find a way to solve them, the more problems in love will pile up. Quantitative change leads to qualitative change. Once the problems in love accumulate to a certain extent, your love will crack and you will probably end up breaking up.
If you want to have a good love, then you should not be afraid of all kinds of difficulties and complications in the relationship. When problems arise, you should not rush to escape, you should try to find a way to solve them.
In short, true love is often hidden in some details. For example, when you have nothing to say together, you can talk together, which means your love is very beautiful.
For example, if you can quickly understand each others jokes, no matter how funny they are, you are willing to take part in them actively, which shows that your love is really sweet.
When you never run away from problems, but work together to resolve them, you can keep good communication and intimate interaction in love anytime, anywhere, then show that you really love each other, your love will become more and more beautiful.
From complete strangeness to intimacy, two people need to go through a lot of tests. Since you have chosen to love each other, then you should love bravely. You should not be easily overwhelmed by difficulties or setbacks in your feelings.
Your love will become more and more sweet and beautiful only when you truly stick to it and you can share your joys and sorrows.
If you are always suspicious and tempting each other in the process of getting along, you always quarrel or cold war, and you always avoid problems, then no matter how much you love each other, you will gradually create distance and estrangement over time, and your love will stop abruptly.